Thanks guys. I just don't know what to think of Karen's short comment you all know I am short(5'3"). lol Anyway, just a shock. I thought she would be a knockout or something since ex always told me how pretty he thought I was.
I know that there is more to attraction but usually the looks are the first thing that draws you to someone. Guess I just don't have the cheater mentality.
kat
Good thing! Well the height thing is just that I"m tall you know and then he did that. He used to always tease me he'd take up with a short girl, guess I thought that was just joking!!! H's first girlfriend was not even 5 ft. tall I would guess! I guess he went for the difference.
I know I've thought in the past maybe they aren't initially out looking for a PA. Maybe make friends and flirt with someone they consider "safe" like my H with a married woman coworker with kids--then they start an EA and then into a PA and soon divorce. I wonder if H had known what would happen with his friendship with OW, what happened to our marriage and family, if he would still have done it, but I guess maybe the excitement after 20 years of being together.... Karen
Thanks guys. I just don't know what to think of Karen's short comment you all know I am short(5'3"). lol Anyway, just a shock. I thought she would be a knockout or something since ex always told me how pretty he thought I was.
I know that there is more to attraction but usually the looks are the first thing that draws you to someone. Guess I just don't have the cheater mentality.
Good thing! Well the height thing is just that I"m tall you know and then he did that. He used to always tease me he'd take up with a short girl, guess I thought that was just joking!!! H's first girlfriend was not even 5 ft. tall I would guess! I guess he went for the difference.
I know I've thought in the past maybe they aren't initially out looking for a PA. Maybe make friends and flirt with someone they consider "safe" like my H with a married woman coworker with kids--then they start an EA and then into a PA and soon divorce. I wonder if H had known what would happen with his friendship with OW, what happened to our marriage and family, if he would still have done it, but I guess maybe the excitement after 20 years of being together.... Karen
Kat, sorry for the double post. Sorry I haven't had much time today. I took D to 2 art classes and went to get some paperwork/talk to the consignment shop owner, so guess I will work there in the future.
What's going on with you today??? I do think you shouldn't worry about whatever happens. I mean not your problem. I know that sounds callous but it's true. I'm more worried about you than anything else. Please post or email me or something when you can! Karen
Thanks guys. On top of some other stuff going on, I have been sick all day running fever and sleeping. The kids have been great, trying to play quietly and getting Mom water to take tylenol with. I have been wiped out. Probably the flu. Hoping I am better tomorrow.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
Feeling alot better today guys. Thanks for checking in. Can't believe I still slept last night after all the sleeping I did yesterday. I kept dreaming of the musicals I was in during jr high and high school...strange! lol
I'll keep taking my meds and get through this yucky weather we are having. My poor car didn't even want to start it was so cold but she did. Now if she can just last 2 more years...
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
Thanks for the call Snow. I feel better today though it is my turn to get the snow. It took forever to get to work because they apparently haven't plowed plus it is really coming down. It is winter and it is beautiful but I hate driving in it!
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
