I will ask her to let me have her January schedule before she goes to work Thursday, and I'll ask her if she prefers a man or woman MC. She hasn't said anything more, and hasn't done anything more that would give a clue that she is planning on changing anything. It's not surprising, of there is going to be change, it will have to come from me.
I read some more of the "N.U.T.s" book, and I can see that I had started (maybe with C's help?) started down that road, to a degree. From what I can see, it has made no difference to W (monitoring results), but I think it has been good for me. And that's the person that I can change. So that's good.
Here's what's been bugging me..... W is a very pragmatic person. I'm afraid that she will do what she thinks she has to to keep the marriage going for now, without really meaning it. I know, don't assume, don't try to read her mind, etc.... It will be an interesting topic in MC, if we get that far. Oh, well, no use borrowing trouble.
(((((Mishka))))) Some mulled cider sounds pretty good! It is cool here today. (For here! )
(((((Ali))))) I have a list of MC's I got from my C, it's the only way I could figure to get reasonable recommendations. There are some men and some women, and some are on our insurance, so hopefully something will work out.
(((((Julia))))) I do think my PMA is getting better. Not with respect to W, but with respect to me.
(((((BobbiJo))))) I am sure it is better than standing still!
I was in a brutally boring meeting almost all day. And it didn't go great. Fortunately, I was not on the receiving end of the negativity!
That's the kind of party no one ever comes to Jeff! Now why would you want one of those? Trust me....I've been having one for two days now.........BAD BAD BAD when you can't stand your own company!
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!
