That is a good question Gypsy...I am not sure I can answer that right now. Can it be a combination of both? can it depend on who the person i meet is and how she "affects" me? I have a date for next Saturday night with IL40 and I got the ok from my cousin as far as original impressions is concerned....and her number. Need to get over to see Mike for juggling lessons. My W just called me just to chat and ask how my weekend was. It is obvious that what I feel after these calls is nowhere close to what I did a couple of months ago. But i have to say that in spite of all the negatives, I still care and wish her success. Incidentally I spoke to my stepdaughter18 (she lives out west) she is coming in for the holidays and wants to spend at least a day with me. That was kind of nice....she sure matured in the 6 months that she has been on her own... That is it in a nutshell I am off to the office.....and it is bloody cold out here.
Juggling lessons from me?? LOL..I'm learning on the fly brother..my advice..go out, have a good time, enjoy the company. I'm like you John..I'm a long ways from getting serious but I do know I'm open to it...
I know I can feel..so that's a good thing.
MHS38 is pretty hot and interesting..and hot..LOL..one more thing, Gypsy mentioned the woamn who may have a grudge about her Divorce..well MHS38 told me all about hers and I listened. I listened simply for the fact that it is her history and to get to know them you must know there history..and I looked intently in her eyse while listening..LOL
with great knowledge comes great power..LOL
Listen to your little voice John..it's never wrong..
John, good luck on the date. I am guessing you didn't mention it to W when she called? Ok maybe that would be petty...
Glad to hear you are getting along a little better this week. They say time helps with healing..........I am sure a little attention from the opposite sex will help, too.
Don"t worry K, I doubt that any of these two Italian ladies will be looking for little John on the first date...especially the one who knows my cousin. Although a good bottle of wine can do some crazy things to a woman....or so I am told. Stepdaughter did live with us...off and on.....mostly on...until the very end. She went to live with her dad because she did not aprove of her mom's actions. I am not only talking about me..... Yes I guess she still considers me a good friend. No, I do not intend to tell my W or anybody else for that matter that i have a date on Saturday night. I am a pretty quiet person. D8 has been overhearing a few conversations however...I treid my best to keep everything on the QT. I just told D8 that they are just friends...
John, I like hearing that you are branching out. Do you and IL40 speak in Italian on the phone? From what you have said, D8 only knows French and English.
D8 now understands Italian....I have my parents to thank for that. IL40 and I speak english together.So Woog are you suggesting that I wrap little John in his fur coat when I go out with the teacher?