There was an add in the newspaper for an entire set of new encylopedias for 800.00. When called, the man selling them simply stated, "I no longer need them....I just got married and my new wife apparently already knows everything!"
Sorry, I just had to share that.
Broken Hearted ------------------ Me - 36 H - 37 S - 8 Married - 1992 ILYNILWY - August 2007 Moved Out - March 2008 OW Revieled - May 28, 2008 Filed for D - July 2, 2008
I'm so sorry to hear this. It's not too optimistic to get married again and have to deal with someone who is always right no matter what. ugh. ;(
You asked how I was doing, so I'll just reply here. Things are good in my life until I date. Because of my ex and because of two short R's since, I no longer believe that I will ever be truly loved or in a truly committed relationship that leads to marriage. I'm so skeptical about men because they are so gung ho and kind in the beginning. I take things slow, everyone's happy but then I ultimately get dumped. It sucks. In all 3 cases I'm good enough girlfriend material, just not good enough marriage material. I no longer believe men ever want to marry on their own volition. I now believe they need to be seduced, tricked, otherwise manipulated or forced into it by pregnancy. I'm not willing to do any of these things, so I better get used to being single for the rest of my life.
I'm so sorry to hear this. It's not too optimistic to get married again and have to deal with someone who is always right no matter what. ugh. ;(
You asked how I was doing, so I'll just reply here. Things are good in my life until I date. Because of my ex and because of two short R's since, I no longer believe that I will ever be truly loved or in a truly committed relationship that leads to marriage. I'm so skeptical about men because they are so gung ho and kind in the beginning. I take things slow, everyone's happy but then I ultimately get dumped. It sucks. In all 3 cases I'm good enough girlfriend material, just not good enough marriage material. I no longer believe men ever want to marry on their own volition. I now believe they need to be seduced, tricked, otherwise manipulated or forced into it by pregnancy. I'm not willing to do any of these things, so I better get used to being single for the rest of my life.
WL,
Yes, being with someone who is always right is a drag... She is working on that...
Please..... Do NOT let these situations get you down... Believe it or not, there are still good guys (and gals :-) ) out there.... You just need to believe that... It WILL happen for you....
I know when my W (now exW) started this cr@p.... I never thought I could trust another woman again.... I married her first and foremost because I could trust her.... What a HUGE mistake.... She was a couple cards short of a full deck with tons of issues...
Anyways, I went on my search and found there were still good women out there.... People who do take Rs seriously......
Speaking of that, my new W told me she was talking to a gal today... Her H's friend was recently dumped by his W again.... They Ded ten years ago.... She took half.... They remarried a couple years later... They Ded again.... She took half of what he had left..... That is so sad... They had almost 25 years together....
On that positive note,I know you will find love.... You just need to give it time and believe....
I pray you find all of God's best in your life.
Take Care,
RMG
"The bad things in life open your eyes to the good things you weren't paying attention to before." from "Good Will Hunting"
