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Really now?? Is that so?

I hear ya bro with "being nice" stuff"....last night I got a tube of blistex.....she actually said "don't think this means anything"! LOL

morning tom! where the hay is my warmth?? if you find it please send it back, its rediculous here today. if this ow stuff with H doesnt kill me the cold will for sure!! LOL!

dont let on to amy that we are figuring her out, its supposed to be a secret hehehe.

oh C54, I can relate!! my H said that once to me about sex...i would rather have had the blistex lol!

Hot Toddy for me pretty please!

The W just called to tell me of all the stuff that she bought D4 at the consignment shop that I went to last night. Said that she got a 10% discount because I was in there last night.

So she asks if I got firm plans for the evening; 'cause she told me that she would keep the kids tonight remember. Well this morning when I asked her if she HAD plans; she said Yes; but it was no big deal. Well, guess what; now if she doesn't leave by 8pm this friend will be mad because she's been to 3 other friends' BD parties and she can't miss this one. I had no response.

She asked where are you going? I told her that I was having dinner right after work and after that I was going to (j - a suburb north of town -- one OM lives there).

w: "why are you going there?"
me: "(dan) has friends over there."
w: "oh, ok!"

Then she mentions that she's going to see if FIL and his wife will keep kids. Said that she would call me and let me know. I said that sounds good. I told her to have a nice day; she said "you too, talk to you later honey."

WTH is up with "honey" crap? Charm offensive must be getting ready to start. Gotta stay strong and detached.

NO expectations...

Right...

I'm reneging on my plans to watch the kids so I can go to a party....honey.

Stay cool.

I love it when a spouse (usually it's the H) says they will "watch the kids" for you....um, they're YOUR kids!!! I guess that's what I'm doing everyday, watching the kids. LOL.

Either labatt Lite OR my new fav, Keith's Amber!

Of course , Corona with lime always works as well!

LOL...

I was set in my place on this early on in my parenting life. When I was living in GA; my boy was less than a year old. My Aunt asked me one time what I was doing one particular night; I told her that I was babysitting the S.

She corrected me quickly by saying "You can't babysit your own kids; you take care of them."

I wonder if she is trying to make herself look better because of potential for lawyers getting involved soon? You know the drill, stay the course!

MC,

Have you been keeping a log of how she has been? LE makes a good point - I see my W trying to do things to show she is the "primary caregiver" - not that this matters. BUT her actions over this entire year show different.

LE and LIS,

yes, I've been keeping a log on this woman since late March. Believe me what you guys speak of is exactly what's been on MY mind. Even if that's the case, hopefully she can maintain a relationship with the kids.

Thanks guys.