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I'm with Ali.
Keep pushing.

One other thing: Stop thinking you know why your wife does the things she does.

I'm afraid that is going to back you into a very bad corner one of these days.



Peace,

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(((((Ali)))))(((((Amy)))))
I think Ali is right, I think W is a bit mad! (At me, that is!)

Tonight I brought home some magnetic curtain rods, and sheer curtains for the French doors in the bedroom. She wanted to know why, and why now. I think that changing things up is upsetting her applecart, a bit.

Amy, I try not to think I know why she does things, but she does leave a lot of clues, as far as the things that she does choose to bring up.

I know that I may end up backed into a corner at some point. I do need to be careful that I choose the corner! Now that I have chosen to start pushing, the result might not be anything that I anticipated, that's the tricky bit!

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And Amy..... thanks for dropping in, I appreciate it! \:\)

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Wow, Jeff....Your W and my H - they are something else. Sheesh.

Your W is really starting to get to me, too! Here you are, fixing up the place, and it sounds like she's getting irritated....???!!! I'm sorry, but I just wanna slap her silly! I would LOVE to see my H taking the initiative to improve things around the house (if he was still living here). Not just saying, but actually DOING.

Your W needs to step back and take a moment to appreciate all that you are doing.

(((((Jeff)))))


Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward. ~ Joseph Campbell
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