lwb, snow is gone. It did not stick. I have to agree with what you are saying. If my Enlightend H where to drop his OW and move on to a different one, I honestly think I could break my NC with him and even try to be friends. It is the horrible deciet that they both have put me through that makes it so painful.
And Donna, I also believe in Karma. It does not neccessarily work on OUR timetable, but it will come back around. I am trying to just focus on me. After all, if I am still focusing on him, then who is going to look after me? I have faith that things will end badly in these As. ((HUGS))
Broken Hearted ------------------ Me - 36 H - 37 S - 8 Married - 1992 ILYNILWY - August 2007 Moved Out - March 2008 OW Revieled - May 28, 2008 Filed for D - July 2, 2008
I miss a lot of being married, doing things for each other, the daily interactions, being close, etc. I'm not looking forward to dating again.
Yeah, I miss all of that as well. But like you, not looking forward to dating either. Soooo not ready yet.
Jeff, I am sure you have read before that the death of a spouse is easier to recover from than a divorce you didn't want. I firmly believe that. Our situations are similar as the kids are with each of us most of the time but we still have to see spouse every day or close enough. So very hard!
PS: Not out of work, yet! 10 minutes to go! And brr, yes, too cold for lights today!
hey living, yep, the signature. I figured at this point, the time table doesn't matter too much, so I took out the dates, and just left the bare bones.
I have to agree with what you are saying. If my Enlightend H where to drop his OW and move on to a different one, I honestly think I could break my NC with him and even try to be friends. It is the horrible deciet that they both have put me through that makes it so painful. 