man, once the cloud of depression lifts, you're gunna be a rock star.
I still get pangs of pain now and then, but you know what, I had DAGGERS of pain going through this crap.
now...
I see the x daily, say how do you do, and go about my way.
the pain I used to feel is now pity. because she is who she is.
I like her, but I don't trust her. but with things the way they are, I don't have to trust her, or like her, I just am who I am with her. she can't hurt me now...
Not really, she lives as if everything is just normal.
Yes. Standard operating procedure for the WAS.
But what gets my goat is when they turn around and pervert in their minds everything about you and your life and the M you had together, making that out to be abnormal, somehow.
You do realize that next month it will be Christmas and I was just wondering if maybe instead of worrying about your Wife, and what she is or isn't doing that maybe you and your girls could sit down together and plan something totally different for the Holidays.
A brand new tradition to welcome in the new year and a fresh start.
Sending hugs your way
There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.
Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11) Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10 Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;
Agreed. Spitty. Agreed. There are a lot of things to read between the line in the clip. FIB
Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11) Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10 Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;
