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((((S&S))))

I hear you about Friday! Makes me happy too.

We'll have to do virtual Rockband some day - I am not bad on the drums if I do say so myself!

Take care - have fun!

happy friday! i dont work and i am still always glad when friday rolls around. its freezing here!!! i hate it!

my D's share a room, they really need to get it organized before xmas too. I too need to clean up around here, I am cooking thanksgiving for my inlaws, should be interesting eh?

hugs to you!

Hey Sugar,

Have you ever tried "no contact" w/your H. I believe it's referred to as "going dark" in DB.

I've ready many of your posts, and it just seems like he really depends on you for emotional support -- since he's totally run his life off into a ditch.

Do you ever wonder how he'd react if you weren't there to lean on?

I think you're doing a great job handling your extremely difficult sitch - I just noticed that he seems like he needs you.

damn..I'd say trainwreck

hey, I'm just kidding.. really I am..

if I ever get to Cali or you here..we need to get together..we would make a good comedy team for sure..

some of the things you have said in this thread, just too damn funny..

now I have to read more. You have links to the whole sitch??

and thank you for the nice things you have said on my thread..I appreciate that..

Hi Corey! D and I will be having a Wii night tonight. I'm no good at Rock Band. I tried it twice and I sucked! Sounds like you have a fun weekend planned!

I wasn't. I call it like I see it and if I wasn't living it, I'd have turned this Lifetime Movie off A LONG TIME AGO!!!!!



Ok, I suck at the link thing, but I'll give it a shot.

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1529184&page=0&fpart=1

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...rue#Post1535028

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...rue#Post1560339

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1595300&page=0&fpart=1

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1605883&page=0&fpart=1

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1622450&page=0&fpart=1

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1640449&page=0&fpart=1

Well for anyone that has nothing better to do, theres the links to most of my sitch, before my name change. I still can't seem to do the rename thing...I'm remedial like that.

(((Dar))) have a good time with the Wii tonight.

(((Lost))) anytime...VRB sounds fun.

(((BG))) hope you warm up soon hon. Take care my sister.

(((DW))) No, I have never gone NC with my H even though I KNOW it would change things. I guess I've always just had the fear that if I did that then he wouldn't ever call me again and then have to realize that I have been the one that needed him way more than he EVER needed me. Stupid huh? I know that probably isn't the case, because I am his ONLY emotional support, but its just the fearful part of me. What a loser. BUT, I am getting better and the fear is almost gone. I do love my H, even after ALL of the crap, I do, but I can't go on this way for very much longer.

Thanks all.

Ok, heres the rest.

http://divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1354906&page=4&fpart=1

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1422071&page=3&fpart=1

These were the only ones I could find...enjoy!

Oh Sugar, Sugar,

You are not stupid and not a loser. I was just asking if you'd thought about it and you have.

If you get to the end of your rope, it's easier -- that's when I went NC w/H for four months. But if you're going to do it, you have to be really ready to do it.

dw

Hey, my dear girl, just wanting to stop by and check on you. Hope you are having a good weekend.

kat

Hi Sugar,

Just stopping by to check on you.

I found H's secret cell phone - but I don't want to hijack - so check my thread if you want to keep up!

Have a good day.

dw