Hon why do you even keep talking to him? If it isn't about your kids, nip it in the bud and go on your merry way. You aren't going to be there to save him from himself anymore. I know it is painful but a few good smacks while falling down will do him a world of good.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
OK...I AM SOOOOO PISSED OFF!!!! I had mentioned to H earlier that I was thinking about not going to MIL's for Christmas Eve and his response was "Oh thats fine. Just push yourself further away." HUH? Ok, so it gets EVEN BETTER. I get home tonight and I'm picking up my mail (we have those communal mail boxes) and I have a package. The package is a huge box os Enfamil samples. So I have DD with me who CAN READ!!! She is asking me WHY they are sending baby stuff to her dad !! So I call H and tell him that he needs to find a way to get off of the mailing list or just NOT have it come to my house. His response? To start yelling at me, "What do you want me to do?" I said find a way. He continues to yell and the gist is, "What do you want me to do?" So I yelled back, "Find a F*cking Way!" and hung up. I then sent a text to H and the Troll that read: I would appreciate it if you would find a way for all of the baby mailing stuff that is coming here to stop. My children don't need to have it thrown in their faces more thanit already has been. This text garnered an immediate phone call from H which I ignored. I then visited the enfamil website and left this charming comment on their "Contact Us" page.
I have been receiving mailers and samples at my home in my husbands' name. The child he had is not with me, so there is no need for your company to waste anymore postage and product sending information to my home. Please feel free to send it to the mother of his illegitimate child.
The Troll XXX XXXXXXXX XXX Sunny Cali, XXXXXX
Please discontinue any and all malings to my home address. Sugar & Spice. Not very PC, but I'm REALLY FREAKIN' TIRED OF THIS NONSENSE!!!!
Last edited by Sugar and Spice; 11/25/0803:02 AM.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
(((((Corey))))), I am so sorry. I really don't know what else to say. It is kind of difficult when they keep pushing their mistakes and messes in our faces, but we will get through this.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
OK...I AM SOOOOO PISSED OFF!!!! I had mentioned to H earlier that I was thinking about not going to MIL's for Christmas Eve and his response was "Oh thats fine. Just push yourself further away." HUH? Ok, so it gets EVEN BETTER. I get home tonight and I'm picking up my mail (we have those communal mail boxes) and I have a package. The package is a huge box os Enfamil samples. So I have DD with me who CAN READ!!! She is asking me WHY they are sending baby stuff to her dad !! So I call H and tell him that he needs to find a way to get off of the mailing list or just NOT have it come to my house. His response? To start yelling at me, "What do you want me to do?" I said find a way. He continues to yell and the gist is, "What do you want me to do?" So I yelled back, "Find a F*cking Way!" and hung up. I then sent a text to H and the Troll that read: I would appreciate it if you would find a way for all of the baby mailing stuff that is coming here to stop. My children don't need to have it thrown in their faces more thanit already has been. This text garnered an immediate phone call from H which I ignored. I then visited the enfamil website and left this charming comment on their "Contact Us" page.
I have been receiving mailers and samples at my home in my husbands' name. The child he had is not with me, so there is no need for your company to waste anymore postage and product sending information to my home. Please feel free to send it to the mother of his illegitimate child.
The Troll XXX XXXXXXXX XXX Sunny Cali, XXXXXX
Please discontinue any and all malings to my home address. Sugar & Spice. Not very PC, but I'm REALLY FREAKIN' TIRED OF THIS NONSENSE!!!!
well...I think I've diagnosed this problem. Looks like a serious case of Batchitt Crazy, coupled with AOMR(Adultonsetmentalretardation) and just a slight touch of Mental F**Ktardation..
I'm still trying to catch up...I've gotten through a few threads. I admire your stamina, your spunky, sometimes snarky attitude..
for what you been through I think you should get a medal..or two..
I would think it might be a good idea to curtail contact with him for a period of time..
I would think it might be a good idea to curtail contact with him for a period of time..
Kinda hard when we leave for Vegas together day after tomorrow. There are many bumps in the desert....
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
can't believe you denied a gambling addict access to a credit card..Whats' up wid dat???
Remeber, emisarry of satan
So the drama continues......
I get a text back from the Troll: Sorry but I don't even know your address. (Apparently shes not looked in the phone book.)
So I fire back with: The fact remains that this stuff is showing up addressed to H and family. This places me in the position of having to explain/lie to my daughter about it. I would think you could understand. Please find a way to get it stopped.
Then as a postscript: And for what its worth, I'm willing to bet your not half as sorry as we are. (Probably didn't HAVE to add this one, but I did...)
So then I get 3 calls in rapid succession from H. I hit ignore on all 3. So I get a text from him: Since you think your being cute I will have your phone shut off first thing in the am.
My reply was: I just don't feel like talking. But do whatever you feel is necessary.
I get a call about an hour or so later and I just told him I was paying the bills and happened to be paying the cell bill and asked if he was going to have my phone turned off or not. I got silence in return so I went on to say that if this was going to be the case that I would change the billing address to MIL's house as this would become his responsibility to pay. So needless to say my phone is not being turned off. Someone must have clued him into the fee as well as the fact that if I have my own plan I can ignore him and there is no threat that can go with it. I have a IC appt. tomorrow and so does H. I think it will be good so she can give me tools to use to get through Vegas without killing him or myself.
Last edited by Sugar and Spice; 11/25/0805:58 AM.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
OK...I AM SOOOOO PISSED OFF!!!! I had mentioned to H earlier that I was thinking about not going to MIL's for Christmas Eve and his response was "Oh thats fine. Just push yourself further away." HUH? Ok, so it gets EVEN BETTER. I get home tonight and I'm picking up my mail (we have those communal mail boxes) and I have a package. The package is a huge box os Enfamil samples. So I have DD with me who CAN READ!!! She is asking me WHY they are sending baby stuff to her dad 
