LE-did you get my songs to you on J's other thread? Please listen to them.
Also do me a big favor, tell him to stop for a few minutes, get out of his head, and just take a breath. Not necessarily to change his mind, just stop. Tell him to stop going HMMMM. And to just breathe. He isn't listening to me. I know you talk to him on the alt or where ever so please tell him that for me. And tell him I'm going to staple something to his forehead if he stays gone too long. Thx.
Last edited by kelaaron; 11/17/0801:35 PM.
If you focus on the past, you ruin the future. You can only live for today.
morning LE. thanks for updating. I cant even attempt to tell you what to do, forgiveness may be harder than when the B's were dropped is my fear. I think you can relate to that too.
hang in there hugs
M 36 XH 34 3 children If a house is divided against itself, that house will not be able to stand. Mark 3:25 "your mood swings are giving me whiplash" twilight ALIVE FREE AND HAPPY 2010
The best thing I've ready lately about everyone's sitch was from the Rejoice Ministries website a few weeks back. It said that if you give up today, you won't feel any less pain tomorrow. I'd say that's true for the kids as well...they aren't going to hurt any less tomorrow if you give up on your M today.
I agree with A and Kel and MC...your W is reaching. Don't slap her hand. Pray about it even more. Pray about your responses to her. Pray about your interactions with her. Pray about your anger at her. Pray, pray, pray!
I've got hope for you, LE!!! Lots of hope! Hang in there.
Love you! Amy
Me 39 H 36 S 7 S 4 T 15 M 12 H out 8/1/08 OW confirmed 8/6/08 D final on 6/12/09...I'm doing good!
Where you gone buddy ? Don't go quiet on us when your in a troubled spot, you get people worried man.... lot of friends here want to know your ok since that last post.
Hi all! Sorry no real time to post anything. Mike said to do work, unfortunately that is now the case. Work has to take a front seat for a couple of days. W is just flaking out. I don't think she wants to come back, she just had a fight with OM and is looking to me to relieve the guilt. Her words Sunday night "When I am with you, my hearrt doesn't hurt." She told me she said to OM that she needed to get past all of this first before she could have any relationship. I'm sure he is crying like a baby to her. He is more emotional than I am. One of the things she found appealing. S9 has a conference at school at 3:30 and I have to go to that and hit an off-site that is about 45 miles from here, but with traffic it is an hour drive. So I am scarce again today. I am mentally much better off. The book is helping breakaway. Sorry I don't have more time. Hopefully tomorrow will be better, but we are working a night schedule tomorrow to make some overdue repairs to equipment. One funny thing, W started her new job yesterday and I think she has forgotten the school meeting this PM. Tonight the kids have their gymnastics with OM's daughter. I may get to see him. That ought to rock his world.
M42 S12/D9 T17/M12 Bomb 1 3/22/06 Bomb 2 7/11/08 Bomb 3 7/31/08 W Filed 8/1/08 D granted 12/17/08 D Finalized 1/29/09
A man who compromises his principles never had them in the first place.
