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Hancock sounds good. Am I able to pick it on Netflix yet?

I think it should be out now or in another day or so, check on line.

kat

I put it at the top of my netflix queue, but it says will be released on the 25th. You can still join us with SATC too you know, but you already saw that one didn't you? Karen

I have seen SATC when the wife let me watch the one she rented a while back. If I put "Hancock" in my queue, it won't come in until middle of the next week. I currently have "Knocked Up", which I watched today, "Juno", and "Don't Mess With the Zohan".

I'll turn in Knocked tomorrow.

S15 and I just watched Zohan yesterday. Um, awkward. Did not know it had all the sex jokes!!! It was funny, but just would not have watched with S15 if I had known! Karen

How about Vantage Point? I heard it was pretty good. though I am keeping Hancock in my queue.

kat

I'll watch it on my own.

When he is with his dad, my son watches all those movies. He has seen them all. I'm catching up with him.

Okay, I posted on karens thread that, like a dum dum, I sent the wife and email at work inviting her for dinner here at the house. I sent,

"Since you've been cooking so much this week, your invited to come eat lasagna at the house with us.

Let me know. If your busy, I understand. "

I sent it at about 5:30, so I figured she should have gotten it. I do know that she has called our son after I got them home. The kids went for a walk around while I cooked up some frozen lasagna and bread sticks. She only spoke to him and not the girls. She told him that she would call when she got home.

No call yet. The little was not feeling well and went to bed after her shower. I hope she feels better tomorrow. Her sister is taking a shower right now and then will get to bed.

I watched the videos that you sent me, Beej.

I also watched the "Slow Fade" video that was on there, too.

So.....with me all emotional from watching the "Love is Not a Fight" video, I just shot an email off to the wifes Yahoo. I KNOW I shouldn't have. I have to stop. But that is it. I sent it and can't undo it. Not going to try to contact her unless necessary now.

I know ya'll are going to kick my azz, but it just came out of me,

"I'm pretty sure that you never check your Yahoo emails anymore, so for some reason I thought I would just send you this email. Maybe compelled.

A very dear friend sent me this link to a video recently. I wanted to share it with you. I know you think I'm crazy, but I'm still fighting. For us. The texts that I sent to you are true. From my heart. We have faith in the same God and I have put my life in his hands.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ED2ZnQ5rFIY&feature=channel

I have realized so many things since we separated. It has made me realize how important life is. What a fun guy I really am. How much I love to have fun. How much I love my children. That I'm way too young to be old. How important family and friends are.

The passion that I told you about. For the kids. For life. For you.

You cried about regretting how you treated your dad. I told you that he never gave up on you. It's true. The same way that I'll never give up on you.

I know you have not thought about the Retrovaille stuff that I gave you. I want to invite you to at least see the movie that is mentioned in the video clip. Its called "Fireproof". See it with me or see it on your own.

Do this one thing for me.

Missing you, and hoping that someday, you will read this.


R"

Yes, I know. A fool.

I saw "Vantage Point" a while back. It was Ok.

Any other ideas?

I think you said something that needed to be said. Now back off and stop for a while. I know it becomes like an obsession, but really back off a bit now and let her see how you helped her. And you have helped her.

Maybe go see Fireproof yourself if you want to. Do it for yourself to help you get some prospective. Again if you want. Either way we will all be here tomorrow to get you through another day.

Hugs, kat