Ahhh, I see....Well since she broke down after the fact, I now wonder if she was fishing for something....your feelings about the M? About her? And perhaps when you said she could have the D, she cried because it sort of said to her that you didn't care??? Hmmm....there are a million possibilities, I am sure of it.
Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward. ~ Joseph Campbell
No assumptions- she could have broken down because she was so upset about it. There are a lot of possibilities. I'm sure she can't be content with the status quo either. I hope she sees the letter as a starting point for moving forward.
My vote is give it to her whenever you think the time is right. You will know.
(((Love and Hugs))))
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
Did you say you were doing it tommorow? Good luck Jeff.. we all believe in you. Thankyou for being there for me on my thread and I agree with your eloquent take on things.. it was a shocking night! I also agree you should pick your moment.. so tommorow, is that before she has some shifts off or somethign? To give her time to digest it?
Ali xxx
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread
