Tonight, even though she works tomorrow, or tomorrow evening? I'm not sure getting her mad is the best place to start!
First off, you're assuming she is going to be mad or upset!
Second off, do you think she cares if you work the next day when she reems you for something?
Third off, if she does work the next day it could very well work to your advantage! She won't have all day to sit home and stew on it and lock you out of the house!
LOL!!! There's a bit of another assumption!
You don't know how she's going to react. You don't know if she's going to be moved by the letter or altogether be pissed. You don't know.
I think if you could wait til Thursday or Friday, she will have the whole day to go through whatever her emotions might be. She might get mad, then have time to cool off. Or vice versa. Again, YOU DON'T KNOW.
Give it to her when YOU feel it is the best time, Jeff.
(((((Jeff)))))
Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward. ~ Joseph Campbell
I say leave it for her tonight. But thats me. Why wait? I mean, seriously I agree w/ WCW, its not like she has shown you the same courtesy, and although generally I believe in being the bigger man so to speak, I am not so sure it warrants it on this occasion. You have waited long enough, and are entitled to get some answers.
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
I do see WCW's, as well as Lola's, points, and they are good. However, I guess I just see giving it to her the night before she has to work as being a little inconsiderate. How many times in our own sitches, or even reading about others here, have we felt, "OMG! I can't believe he/she did that...said that...when they KNEW you had xyz going on that day or the following early morning?!! What an a$$!"
What's one more evening going to change?
Last edited by GoingForward; 11/19/0808:36 PM.
Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward. ~ Joseph Campbell
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
(((((WCW, GF, Lola))))) I think I will do it tomorrow. She claimed to not sleep after the attempted kiss, I'm pretty sure this would be worse. And it would be my fault, in her mind.
I know it is assuming, but based on her behavior over the years, I expect this to upset her. Not because of the M, but because it will be threatening the status quo, which she seems to be happy with. I'd like to be wrong, so I won't have any expectaions!
Attempted kiss??? WTF did I miss??? I need to go back and read your post Darlin'...
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
Okay wait. Now that I have my own office I can't reread everything. so could you just do a quick recap for me please?
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
It was a few months ago.... I tried to give her a kiss, she was on her bed, I was clearly not. She tried to turn cheek to me, I tried to stop her. She got mad. A bit later she was comparing it to attempted rape.
Are you so sure she's going to be upset about shaking the status quo? I remember when she broke down and asked if she could have a D! So I wonder about that! I think she probably wants something to change, too, but maybe doesn't know herself exactly what that is.
(((((Jeff)))))
Last edited by GoingForward; 11/19/0809:34 PM.
Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward. ~ Joseph Campbell
