My X is also more strict with the kids, but we have the same overall rules.
You are right about not knowing the future and it is best to wait and cross those hurdles as they occur.
I do think a little bit of how W will be once I have a new lady living with me. I dont think she would ever want to come in just as I dont want to ever see or visit OM's place.
Dear Prince C, following the recent developments in your country with the economy, I would say we need to reconsider who is to relocate. The job offer is still valid (S's kept man) and you may need to look into that list of benefits I've send you a while ago. You will see that most of those are "guaranted". Extra benefits can be arranged S
Have fun in the wilderness as it must be good to get away from all this bear stock market crash news. Speaking of bears... dont forget to pack the pepper spray or a device that can deliver significant lead poisoning if you are in bear country. Yogi is getting fattened up for winter.