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not a bad idea mt. I was going to see if she tried to search it at all.

And with the exception of the first call, all pretty short. I just keep thinking wouldn't it be amazing if it were something that simple? Tell me this, besides the alien sightings with the calls, is he disappearing around the same time?

Anyone seen BG?

I tried calling last month....blocked my #, and it was a woman that answered. I engaged her in some convo, confused about having a wrong number, but I didn't recognize the voice. It was not the OW, but it did sound slutty. lol

I also tried searching but it shows as a land line, and unlisted. So, my research shows that it may be a pre-paid cell. Not sure. It really frustrates me.

He does not disappear then, but he was a the bar unexpectedly the day of the long call. That was last month when I was home sick and he did not call and did not come home but went to the bar.

I have not seen BG, but I know that she and james are friends in the alt world. Maybe you could check with him?

I like that Hope, she sounded slutty! That made me laugh!

Yeah, wonder what is up with BG?

Prepaid cell, just keeps getting wierder and wierder.

Breathe and if there aren't anymore I wouldn't worry too much.

I know I have to let it go. I have to focus on the good things that have happened instead. The baby steps. And no phone calls for the past few weeks.

You guys know how it hurts.

Yup. Were you reading J's thread this morning you smart woman?

Yup, I was. Figured there was more than one way to skin a cat.

Did you locate MT? She is mutual with BG and I, so the circle is complete

I haven't heard from BG though, has any one else?

Yea, he and I live parallel lives in many ways. I actually remembered his from MC.

So you read what happened last night here? I'm digesting all of it. Need to finish folding the laundry then to a clients. I'll be back on there checking out the alt.

Yup, I read and put in my 2cents. I think it was good that he listened. I also think that it's good you are digesting the talk.

Think back, it really wasn't all that long ago that he wouldn't even want to talk to you.

Give and take. Usually more giving. Once in a while we get some taking!

Hell, it's been 2 of the longest months of my life. Before that at least he would talk about stupid stuff. I know it is totally MLC, but they are still issues he is dealing with. Thanks for your two cents. They always help.