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Hey Julia, well, wow, well done, sounds liek you feel happy with your course of action. I'd be surprised if he responded today, he may be a bit shocked ! Wait and see hey.

Theres some big pluto stuff happening this week, by Wednesday its exact. I think its definetly a make or break moment, IMHO. I hope he at least talks to you or agrees to meet or something, instead of just emails back, like my ex did. We are all waiting with anticipation.

Al x

Julia,

just wanted to say that I'm reading and I"m proud of you for taking such a big step!

T

(((Sep, ITH, Mishka, Ms M, Ali, T)))

Thank you so much for your support. No news to report from H yet, kind of obviously really!

Other news, one of my best friends told me tonight that she is pregnant. It's funny because while I am so thrilled for her it is also weird because she got married 6 months after me and maybe that would have been me if things hadn't gone pear shaped... not that I am broody but still, weird...

I can imagine that would feel weird. I'm glad you're not down about it though.

Sorry your MIA H is not responding either negatively or positively to the email. Give him time, maybe he's still processing the shock that you know all.

Hi Julia,

Assuming you haven't heard back yet or you would have posted...just checking in on you!

ITH

(((Julia))) Hope you are doing good.

(((((Julia))))))

Good afternoon/evening sweetie! Hope all is well. How's the royal visit coming?

((((Julia)))))

Just stopping by to say hello. I hope you had a good day. I can totally relate to the feeling lonely sentiments. Sometimes it's just quiet isn't it?....

I missed choir yesterday, especially hearing the music in the new M&S ad!

L. xx

(((Mishka, ITH, Sep, OD)))

Thank you so much for checking in on me, it makes me feel really cared for! It is so nice to visit my thread and see you here.

Still nothing from h. I am very detached though, I had one minor panic today where I thought perhaps I should have just left things but then I just thought that I really cannot go on pretending nothing is going on. Other than that I haven't spent much time dwelling at all. I have started feeling pretty 'done', it is hard to carry on now really, however I don't think I am quite done yet, but it may not be long. I have spent so long beating myself up and now I am reading to carry on growing as a person and I am starting to think it is his loss...

I have decided that I am going to start dating again. I went out on a date on Saturday which was nice but then I found out he had a girlfriend so I have backed right off. However, I have been sent chocolates in an attempt to be wooed which is quite funny. So I am not going to actively look but if things come my way I am not going to say no. It is strange to think that a few months I thought I was on the shelf...

I met with a really old friend tonight who I had lost touch with. I met her the other day at the train station and we went for a drink tonight. We used to play the Recorder together as a duo so we are going to start up again. We will both be pretty rusty but hopefully will improve. She was a WAW (she's 10 years older than me) so interesting to speak to her although I didn't feel I could quiz her too closely yet, but I will.

Mishka, the preparations for the Royal visit are going well. I am making sure that I get Evian water and Diet Coke as these are her favourites! It is so exciting. It is drawing nearer as it is on the 25th.

Lisa, I haven't heard the M&S ad. How exciting! I'm looking forward to choir next week.

Lisa, I've just seen the M&S advert. It has Take That in it too... Sigh they are soooo hot! I'm going to see them in July.

The Winter Wonderland is nowhere near as good as an arrangement as ours!