I guess they risk getting caught because they are serial cheaters, chicki.. Maybe it's no fun unless they're cheating on someone.
Thanks Yoyo.. You are too sweet
It's been a rough week so far.. I've barely seen D5
I guess that just gives me more fire inside to fight for her. She doesn't deserve to be carted around and worn out all the time. She cried when I dropped her off at school yesterday morning because she just wanted her Mommy. She hasn't done that in at least a year. It breaks my heart because you know that deep inside she's hurting but usually puts up this tough front... Ugh!!
I guess that just gives me more fire inside to fight for her. She doesn't deserve to be carted around and worn out all the time. She cried when I dropped her off at school yesterday morning because she just wanted her Mommy. She hasn't done that in at least a year. It breaks my heart because you know that deep inside she's hurting but usually puts up this tough front... Ugh!!
This breaks my heart. Most WAS say that the breakup is only about the spouses that it won't affect the childre. My question is what child of divorce hasn't been affected and had their lives turned upside down?... It seems it affects the kids more than anyone, they are the ones that seem to have the least stability. Mom and Dad have their own places and don't have to shuffle back and forth. Just wish the WAS could see this, but they think everything will be fine...And you certainly can't convince them otherwise.
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
In my case I think? in some way H's leaving was and is better on our girls. We had a very unhealthy R. Now the girls seem? fine and more happy. THey r not subjected to X's bipolarness all the time.
The only effect I ahve noticed is that of the three the two tiny ones have started to sleep walk (this for about one yr now).
D5 had night terrors for two nights after spending the weekend with stbx/ow. No doubt in my mind that underneath that tough exterior, she's confused and hurting.
I am so nervous about the meeting today. I just pray that I can keep my emotions in check.
