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I wish you were closer...I know isn't half an hour close enough, I would ask for a whole box. I just need to get this out and the board has been so quiet and I am stressed about it. Thanks.

kat

Try not to stress to much, as hard as it can be. I am off to bed soon, got to work this weekend. Next time we meet up I may bring you a whole box. Take care.

Kat, so sorry about your news. ((((Kat)))) If you can't get help through financial advice, is there any way a lawyer could help you out somehow legally? Still seems crazy that your XH can legally drag you down this. It totally sucks that their MLC's seem to make the LBS and kids suffer more than anyone sometimes. Although I think eventually you will be better than ever, and your XH will still be suffering if he keeps living the way he is. Well, at least I sure hope so!!! Karen

Yeah, I would love for karma to come and bite him in the butt and HARD!! I've stopped crying now, so that let out a little steam. I have felt like crying all day but what set me off was telling my Mom that I might be facing this. She of course will tell my Dad. It feels like getting Divorced all over again!

kat

Yeah, good and hard! I can't imagine must be so tough to tell your parents stuff like this. I am kind of glad my parents arent around to see how H has been this past year. Also my dad was kind of a tough but sweet guy, and I think would have kicked H's a**. Although come to think of it, maybe that would be fun!!!

I think that's the thing is that the WAS don't think about how they aren't just impacting their own lives, or even the LBS, but their kids and in-laws and countless family and friends are being hurt by them. Karen

((((Kat)))) this is not due to any irresponsibility on your part. Its just more unfortunate fall-out from a situation beyond your control. I'm so sorry that you didn't get better news than you did today. I wish I had better advice to give you, but I think you have done what you can as far as any recourse you might have. As for Karma...its sometimes slow, but IT ALWAYS gets you in the end. I'm sure H is going to get quite a dose. Not that it helps much now. (((((hugs))))))

You girls said it. I was just talking with flirt guy via e-mail and said I just needed to hear that it would be ok. then all of sudden you guys are all here. Mysterious!

kat

No, flirt guy doesn't know my dilemma, he has enough on his plate. I am just so glad we are talking. We talked off and on for 5 hours last night. It is the one bright spot in this mess. Just friends, but feels really good.

kat

Wow. Wish there was some way to force xH to pay your bills (what he is supposed to) and to help you from going down the drain. Its just not fair!!

Hey, you know I think there are no coincidences. And I do believe the stuff in our lives ultimately turn out for the best and will for you too!!! Gotta go to bed now, so good night Kat and sweet dreams. 5 hours--you must be way more tired than me!!! Karen