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(((((Michelle)))))))

Good morning sweetie!!!! Hope you got some good sleep and are feeling a little better.

Well that's no fun. Sorry to hear you weren't feeling too well again yesterday, but I hope that's not so much the case with today.

(((((Get well)))))

((((Michelle))))) I hope you feel better soon!

L. xx

Feeling a bit better. Slowly but surely!

Got a voicemail from H today. About the latest check he wrote me, saying could I hold off on cashing it. *headdesk*

Same old, same old. For some reason, it really got to me though. I'll have to figure out why tomorrow.

Off to bed now. Gotta be up early again.

Well hes consistant if nothing...

Michele,

I'm MI as well. Could have used you in Iraq! I had two dud LTCs that worked for me. I can't beleive you have missed mobilization! I LOVE Ft Huachuca.

Yep, no surprises from him...
I hope you are feeling better.
K

Other than the elevation, I love it here as well. One of the prettiest army posts I have ever been to!

So far I have only missed mob because my COs have been very supportive of my being in school and the fact that we were in our BN recovery phase. We are probably going again in FY2010. Not sure where yet...but definitely going. I'll volunteer for that one.

Yes, H is definitely consistent. And I am getting more frustrated with it. I am sick of limbo. I want it all or nothing. I am not settling.

(((((Michelle)))))
Guess you didn't get it cashed fast enough!

Don't settle! Your should have it all!

Glad you're feeling better , but sorry for the frustration you're going through now. If it's not one thing, it's another.

Do you think the same old, same old got to you because things seemed to be going well for a while there? I mean, your H has taken some positive steps in the most recent weeks, and then all of a sudden, here he is exhibiting more of the same yet again.

I've had similar experiences in my sitch, and yes, it can be a pretty big letdown. I think I got a little too hopeful in thinking the positives signs were good for the M. In retrospect, my thinking probably should have been that the positive signs were good for H and just the R in general between the two of us. Kind of falls into that whole thing of too high of hopes = unintended expectations, and of course, expectations = preplanned disappointments.

Just a thought.

Don't work too hard this weekend!

(((((((Michelle)))))))