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Thanks Tomato, I think my H could use some prayers, actually, a LOT of prayers (then again couldn't we all...)

I just pray that he can get over his fear and try to be a family with me and the kids again. Stop being afraid and do it. I said that today when he said he was scared, I said, "That's why they call it a 'leap of faith'"...

I pray that God will help Dan take that leap.....

BBJ,
hang in there girl. With God ALL things are possible...

Hey, you don't have "Willard" relation do you? I have a cousin in Iowa that's name is BBJ.

TOH

No, I don't have Willard relation, but BBJ is becoming more common around these parts....

Thanks for posting, I need to remember to always trust in God to do what is right and lean not on my own understanding....

Good night everybody. My brain needs to sleep.........

Night BBJ, hope for a better day tomorrow...
TOH

He will & I will be continuously praying for it. Dan ... my prayer project. In the crosshairs ..

hope you got some rest. Your whole family will be in my prayers.

the least I can do. and maybe the most at the same time.

Thanks, Tomato. That really means a lot to me, we have never met and yet you are praying for my Husband and my family. Dan is a lucky guy, even if he doesn't see it...........

I will pray for you as well Tomato.

Onward and upward, today is a new day!

Bobbi,

Duct tape your mouth closed or get a lawyer. Quit with the interrogation. If I was your husband and put on the spot like you did, I'd have said, "I don't know, I'm scared", but been thinking, "please put me out of my misery." Enough with the pressure! Lawyer up or shut up

I disagree with PD. I don't get why it is just fine for the WAS to have some kind of emotional crisis that leads him act erratically, but PD thinks the LBS has no right to react. We are humans. The H's crisis directly caused the W's crisis. She is entirely entitled to her feelings. And in a marriage he needs to deal with her feelings just as much as she needs to deal with his. His emotional crisis should not be a "get out of dealing with your spouse's feelings free" card.

That said, I like your new attitude BBJ. I hope you can keep it up when he comes back.