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I heard that too, I know the date you mean! Too freaky, its all that stuff about Pluto being at the centre of the galactic universe or something (and on my ex's damn Venus!)

Talking of which...I checked for next week and that Pluto conjunct Venus is like a "last chance" for Leos to realise at the last moment that THATS what they wanted all along... I dont know, because last venus conjunct pluto he moved out, but he was crying as he did so (sigh, wish I had asked him why). But then this venus-pluto is the last planetary contact to Pluto before it moves out of Sag forever. THen, its the last conjunct to Venus until next December, but by then, things will really have moved on.

So.. maybe you do need to be in the house?

Al x

You know what, maybe I should be home. I think that even if it hits him then (which I hope it does) it still isn't going to be the end.

I guess it is the end of the Mayan calendar if we are thinking of the same date.

I will consider being home and see if I can get any guidance between now and then. I do know that the end of this month is going to bring about rapid changes for Leo's after the realization is made, whatever it may be.

Hey Kel,

Did you read my thread? I#'m pretty freaked out right now, I got the same message from 3 unconnected sources, you being one of them. I wasnted to ask you why you said late December/early Jan, that is what you said isnt it?

This is all so wierd. Yes you should be there I think, its a powerful day.

As for the Venus pluto stuff... so he's having an opposition? Wow. That would explain it. My ex is having a square.. someone has come into his life to teach him something, or perhaps it will get more intense/worse as he heads into it now and next year, it started the day he started going out with her. So wierd. I am not sure I will get any contact with him on 12th, so it must be between him and her now. At least you are still in each others lives, so you are riding the storm?

Al x

Yes Ali, I'm riding the storm but after last night I want out of the whole thing. The pattern of people I've chosen in my life seems to be one of people constantly telling me how horrible I am and how wrong I am and I'm over it all. No this wasn't H this time, a friend who will no longer be a friend. I knew a breaking point was coming for me and I'm almost glad it was her because I felt like it would be me telling H to go. It is amazing when you finally open your eyes to what you see. I'm glad I have some good friends on here though. People who have seen me raw and are still around. I'll check your sitch. You are in England right? So what is it 6 hours ahead for you? My neighbor is from there and I know calling her family is always based on the clock.

Its 12.30pm... was your Dec/Jan thing an astrological thing to do with your Leo H, or was it from your spirit, you said ? I am curious!

I read your post on another thread.. I am not surprised you broke friends with her!

Al x

Yea Ali, I am not really surprised about it either. My thing was spirit first then confirmed by astrology. Something on your thread. Funny every one wants to know what is in their forcast, so I've been passing along what is on Priya's site as she seems to be dead on for the most part. I could never do what you do with the exact transits and stuff because i"m not there yet. I understand them but don't see everything there is to see with them yet. Does that make sense? So please don't think I'm trying to influence, just let them know that what is going on is not always what it seems and that there are real forces at work that are influencing each of us a little differently. The one I'm really concerned about is MT. I don't like what Priya said about the next week, ending of R etc... But I don't know if it was marriage or not and I haven't asked her for her info to look more definately. So just general for her sign.

Oh and I did get the Fyou email this morning. RCI.

The sex is not bad however I stopped initating or even being affectionate a long time ago. He complained about this for a long time and then stopped.

I have not read your whole thread, but I just want to say that from this man's perspective, having to be the initiatior of both affection and sex and often receiving no response, it would be INCREDIBLY WONDERFUL if my wife had reciprocated with affection, and actually initiated sex.

Or to put it another way, YOU HAVE NO IDEA WHAT THIS WOULD MEAN TO MOST MEN.......

To not be affectionate and to never initiate, thats not helpful.

In my case, I was the affectionate one, the initiator. I hope you don't out of hand reject your H's advances. I hope you are clear and express when you just need non sexual affection.

If you and your H feel closer after you are mutually affectionate and sexual, then why not initiate it often ?????????

Native, my whole thread is a little crazy so don't feel like you have to read it. I vent ALOT. I do appreciate the male perspective. I know for me that was a problem. I'm getting better about it and maybe it will make a difference in the long run. I can tell you that if this R goes right, it won't be an issue any longer. Thanks for stopping in.

K
Thank you