More of a "robot" towards W....I think I have mastered emotional detachment!!
I am not gonna say I don't think about her or care about her.....now love her?...not who she is lately. Now I still see "some" good in her but I don't hang on it like I used too.
Fun?? My sense of humor is coming back!!
I find it hard to "act" single and show my kids good morals and decision making rite now.
H 34 W 31 M 11yrs D 11 D 9
6-1-08 I wanted to fix marriage 6-11-08 I found out about OM
The closest I get to acting single.....doing what I am rite now!!
Ate dinner...jumped on the bike awhile....chillin out having a smoke and posting!! I do DO stuff but I still DO it like I did when I was "happily" married.
H 34 W 31 M 11yrs D 11 D 9
6-1-08 I wanted to fix marriage 6-11-08 I found out about OM
I have a 2008 Buell XB12R. It's half sport bike half Harley. Bought it in October of 2007. It was actually mostly Ws idea!! I find it funny.....she must have "allowed" me to buy it out of guilt.....October was about 4 months into her A/she was done with our marriage!
H 34 W 31 M 11yrs D 11 D 9
6-1-08 I wanted to fix marriage 6-11-08 I found out about OM
Ahhh..you guys talking about motorcycles makes me miss riding with hub SO badly!! I would totally love to get my own and learn to ride..tho can't really afford that..but I would LOVE to do it and I think hub would probably fall off his chair LOLOL!
My hub has a Kawasaki Vulcan..it's really nice..of course I couldn't get something that nice
Tawnya
Me:39 H:40 D18/S12 M20/T21 Bomb 10/11/08 One Two Three Four
Phoenix isn't saying to hook up with the closest chick to you. Just to other single guy stuff. Play some cards, ride the bike, grunt, scratch etc.
Thank you A in O for clarifying. There was a time you were single before you were married, right? Did you do anything besides look for someone to be your wife? You DID have other interests I presume.
You cannot be lonely if you like the person you're alone with. Dr. Wayne Dyer
Of course I didn't just walk around looking for a wife....LOL Actually alot of the stuff I did before marriage for fun I still do for fun. I actually have some friends and family that were close before and during our marriage. These people are actually taking all this pretty bad.
H 34 W 31 M 11yrs D 11 D 9
6-1-08 I wanted to fix marriage 6-11-08 I found out about OM
Must be my word of the day....the more I say it to myself.....the dumber it sounds....actually
W was acting sad last night I picked up on it in her voice....I asked if she was ok....she was vague in her answer.
She called me about 15 mind ago to say her and D9 were home sick. D9 has some symptoms but when I asked wife she said she was just "blah".....can't think of any other way to describe it. I will call around lunch to check on them/see if I can bring anything home. We have MC tonite and I hope she doesn't bail on me.
H 34 W 31 M 11yrs D 11 D 9
6-1-08 I wanted to fix marriage 6-11-08 I found out about OM
