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That is "St. (LIS's wife's first name here)" behavior, my friend.

Yes, what Puppy said. And, she feels (in her head), that when things get out that they'll all understand. She will lie and twist things about your marraige and you to make herself look innocent. She's not thinking clearly. I wouldn't doubt that she feels like she has support. But, what people say to her face and behind her back are two different things.

(((S&S)))

Naturally. The utility belt is on order - we'll get them at the same time as the Anti-Wambulance!

PDT and (((wdid)))

I understand. But what to do? Anything I can do? Sit back and watch her dig her hole deeper? Exhaustion is starting to settle in a bit...

Lots of anger and seemingly shots at each other. Truth darts she needs to hear, yes, but she is taking them differently. Perhaps do something loving once a day throughout this whole journey. KEep doing what you are doing, but add something loving each day as well....not sarcastic loving, just pure loving action. I know you can't see that movie, Fireproof. But, you could get the book THe Love Dare. It has you do one thing per day and has prayers as well. YOu'd like it I think.

(((wdid)))

I will get that book when in Phoenix next week with S13. Would love to go to the movie, but not sure S13 would want to.

Yes, there were shots back and forth... mainly my way. Sometimes I am feeling like the Titanic has started listing. The hole may be too big to plug. Sometimes, but not always...

Had a C session today. My C gives W credit for being tenacious - keeps coming back for more. Not sure if that is good or bad...

If s13 knows your wife is having an affair, then you should take him with. He will see what you are doing and it would be good for him to see and understand what is going on. It will get you in the right frame of mind as well. If he doesn't know, not sure you want him seeing it. He will put 2 and 2 together.

HOld on, lis. Just keep holdin on. YOu're doing ok.

Lost, maybe you could steal away to see it by yourself.



She is tenacious because you usually give in. She will keep it up until you cave or she "gets" that she is not going to get her way...

Looking forward to the utility belts coming in and we will have to order more anti wambulance (does it come in bulk?)

Tell me...will you have a cape?

Would like to - have to see where it is playing. Maybe S13 could go to one and I could. Likely tough with just the two of us there.



I have lasted this long, so hopefully I will not cave. Question is whether she will "get it" or not.

Wow, a cape? Guess that means a spandex suit as well? And need a Costco run for the bulk supplies...

Oh wow, Costco really does have everything then. I forgot about the spandex suits...I may need to rethink my whole look.

Going to see 1 while he sees another isn't a bad idea.

I think if you continue to stick to your guns and maybe incorporate some of what WDID says (loving gesture each day)she will have no choice.