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(((Julia, Handsome, Michelle, Ali, Lovely One and Beautiful Where))))

I'm so glad you liked the dress. I hope it gets CEO in a tizz too- red is his favourite colour.

Not much news to report today. It was quiet at work, so I started sorting out my CV. Rich girl was somewhat annoying- she thinks that CEO deserves for the company to fold, and doesn't understand that it means the rest of us lose our jobs. Fancies CEO girl was being wierd as usual- suspiciously asking where I was when CEO was sending me work e-mails yesterday. H didn't call/e-mail, and I got asked out for lunch by a lawyer from round the corner. I think I'll go to that- it'll be a bit of a distraction and he's funny and intelligent, although not at all my type if there is such a thing.

So, I was thinking today about why CEO stopped flirting, and I think it's been nothing to do with me. I was in a bit of a mood the day he stopped, but I doubt that would have had an effect. I actually think that his boss (the Chairman) might have said something to him about it because it stopped almost immediately after we had a company meeting which the Chairman was at and where CEO was almost in flirting overdrive: looking at me, legs apart pointing directly at me and his hands hooked over his belt in a crotch display, talking only to me, smiling at me. I suppose it's pretty funny, except it's ruined my fun! Anyway, that and that he's busy and stressed with work.

Oh, and my ballroom dancing place got cancelled. Very annoying- they made a mistake accepting the booking, so I might try and find another course somewhere instead (or leave it til the new year).

(((((all)))))

L. xx

You ok Lisa?

You never really say how you feel...but how are you feeling about H not being in touch? Are you concerned, or are you accepting/resigned to it? He's never not been in touch for so long has he?

I had hoped he would email you today, maybe tommorow hey.

I checked his chart and this major Uranus-Saturn opposition happening tommorow (but its exact now) falls directly on H's moon! Thats significant (although it falls on my Sun and nothing has 'happened' to me yet!)

I dont know what that will mean for your H, but as its Saturn falling on his moon, it could be the 'death' of something and that something will be Moon related (woman, lovelife, the mother, the inner nature, the emotions and the Moon for a man represents the partner). It also falls opposite his Mercury, meaning he has Uranus on his Mercury right now.. I have that and I feel pretty crazed/fired up mentally! Lots of thinking.

Will be interesting to see how this week pans out, but I cant make any guesses as to how. I cant help thinking though that the time has come to choose, properly. Also, this isnt an overnight thing, it does play out over the next year, but this particular first round is exact on his moon, like I said.

Wish I could help more! Thinking of you,
Al x

((((Ali))))

I feel OK- resigned to H not being in touch, I guess. You're right, it's a record period of NC for us, but I think that's fine- hopefully he's doing some thinking and maybe one of the thoughts might be about me every now and again. I guess I feel detached. Maybe a bit disappointed- it's funny for him to have retreated after we'd been in touch so much before, but I genuinely don't think it's to do with me so there's not too much i can do about it for now. To be honest I'm more upset that my flirting partner has deserted me; it was a daily source of fun and smiling and I miss it!

Interesting about H. I remember you posting to me ages ago about him having issues going on until November, and then again until next May or so. I hope it doesn't involve anything happening to his mother, and something happening to the aubergine. Maybe he'll ditch her tomorrow. The thought makes me smile (but I don't expect it to happen!).

Do you think he needs to chose, or I do? I don't think I have a choice right now other than to live my life without H while keeping a door open just in case. If CEO was to ask me out on a big date, maybe then I'd have a choice to make. He has rock hard abs and very big......hands!

Gosh, how old am I? 14?!

I hope not! I'd have to go to jail for just thinking about you!

Maybe 18 then Handsome! How are you? I was green with envy at you and Michelle getting to have dinner yesterday!

L. xx

((((((Lisa))))))

I'm doing ok. I'm tired, it was a busy weekend! Seeing Michelle last night was great! I was a bit apprehensive, meeting someone I didn't know like that, but that didn't last long at all! Part of me wishes W knew that I had a pleasant dinner with such an attractive, smart, and young(!) woman. But that wasn't the point! We had a great time (at least I did) and didn't talk about our sitches a bit! Hopefully I'll get to see her again before she leaves, she has a lot of things she wants to do, and no time for many of them!

I was wondering the same thing... How old r u my lady?
S

Hey Lisa.. well you do have a choice...and lets say YOU said to him that YOU want a D sometime soon, then that would be a perfect manifestation of Saturn opposite Uranus on his Moon. As would him asking you for a D.. or, him choosing his M (Saturn) over his A (Uranus) and then ditching her to work on the M.. so, I really cant say! All I can say is, I thikn this is a significant time, more so than any other time this year, if that makes sense.. but its going to take a while to unfold.

Kalni, you have so many sign offs, whats the S stand for, or am I being daft? (nuts)

Al x

Sunshine!

(((((Ali)))))

(((Lisa)))

Interesting observations. You sound busy, a bit overwhelmed. Almost like you have had to cut back on thinking about H because of the sheer volume of other stuff.

Don't worry, I can never replace you in Jeff's eyes!