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I guess she doesn't want to be angry at herself so she turns it on you? Weird stuff...Karen


Yep Karen it is true. I got to the point of most of the bs talk was like Charlie Brown talking to his teacher. Not understood and Blah, blah blah.

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Originally Posted By: Sugar and Spice
((((Lost))))) Must still be some kind of spell hanging around from Halloween. Somebody needs to remove her broomstick from her butt! Lord, God how do you stay so calm?

She is desperate because you have successfully and without much effort, thwarted her at every turn and it looks like she was not AT ALL PREPARED for a LIS that was not just ready to roll over and give her what she wants. I would say that you are doing a great job of letting her "feel" her consequences. Again...you 'da man. "Nast when Needed" maybe I should change my screen name...I suppose SuperBitch would just be showy?


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(((S&S))) needed that humour! Thanks.

54 - thanks bro. Man this sure is cr@p eh? I don't need to make her look bad, she is doing that very well on her own! \:D

Yenko: I do sense the "pick a fight" mentality. And blocking the door was just egging me on. Ain't working... I am hanging... not sure if the thread I am hanging by is much stronger...

(((Karen))) - thanks. I am guilty of communication issues in the past, and certainly now trying to communicate is next to impossible. You are bang on with the rest! She should be feeling guilt, but she has herself convinced what she is doing is right. After all, she thinks I must be jealous of her... wtf is that!?!?!?

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OK all. I have arranged with D16 and S13 to have a talk with them tomorrow. Despite what W says, they DO NOT FEEL that we need to have the counsellor present - they are perfectly fine talking to me alone. I gave them the choice and that is what they want.

So I will listen. They can spill their hearts out - I will listen. When it is my turn, I will not bad mouth W. I will, however, speak the truth. This is W's decision alone - they know that already.

Wish me luck! Any advice? This has been one F'd up weekend without a doubt.


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Originally Posted By: lost_in_space
So I will listen. They can spill their hearts out - I will listen. When it is my turn, I will not bad mouth W. I will, however, speak the truth. This is W's decision alone - they know that already.
Wish me luck! Any advice? This has been one F'd up weekend without a doubt.


As always you have all the luck I can wish you and any support I can give you. (SB to the rescue!! LOL! ;\))


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(((S&S)))
Thanks.
The new Dynamic Duo???
SB and Teflon Man. \:D


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Little update - for me good thing I heard this before lunch else I would have been

S13 had hockey game last night. My mom came (she told me this). I had taken S13 earlier and W came later.

W walks into rink, sees my mom and goes over and gives her a kiss and sits with her for the game. Mom was shocked (yes she knows everything).

WTF is that???????

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Does she know that your Mom knows everything?


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Hey Tom.

Probably not - but she does know that mom knows about her plans, her trips, her going out... On Thanksgiving (Cdn), she dropped the K's off at mom's for supper and didn't even come in the house to say hi, yet last night she does that.

Weird! Freakin weird!!!

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Hell, My W won't even go in and see her OWN mother when we dropped the kids off a couple of weeks ago.


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Originally Posted By: lost_in_space
(((S&S)))
Thanks.
The new Dynamic Duo???
SB and Teflon Man. \:D


Yep, cue the batman theme music baby!!!!

Originally Posted By: lost_in_space
Little update - for me good thing I heard this before lunch else I would have been

S13 had hockey game last night. My mom came (she told me this). I had taken S13 earlier and W came later.

W walks into rink, sees my mom and goes over and gives her a kiss and sits with her for the game. Mom was shocked (yes she knows everything).

WTF is that???????


If you could understand then you would be as screwed up as she is. It was probably for herself and for "show." Its hard to be "Supermom" when you don't speak to your MIL. So it was the "Supermom Show" featuring MIL for the benefit of DS and the hockey people. Your delusional F*cktard wife thinks shes got everyone fooled. She doesn't want to know that everyone knows and that she looks like a fool for what she is doing.

The fog is thick in this one (yoda voice). Shes an idiot right now...let her make a fool of herself. You have ringside seats, just sit back and watch the show. ((((hugs)))) SB out.

Hey, are we gonna have some sort of Batsignal? Can I get one of those cool red rotary phones? When do I get my utility belt? Enquiring minds wants to know! ;\)

Are we able to leap F*cktards in a single bound?


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