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Needlove and Livin4Me,

I just feel for your sitches. I was there, and I know the heartaches, frustrations, and endless waiting for this to just come to a conclusion. Things do improve once a spouse (WAS) moves away. I know the loveless marriage all too well, and its going to get better down the road, with time. Both of you deserve healthy R's, love, joy, peace in your lives.

Controlling our emotions is the hard part, but that's where you will win any argument or button pushing.

I was just going to ask about that - and you changed your profile signature, too, right?

Welcome aboard - it may not feel like it now, but you are going to be ok. It is a miracle that happens to each one of us - we are all ok.

Thank you for the encouragement Sol and Donna. Sometimes it's hard to see that it will get better, but hearing it from someone else makes it easier.
And yes, I changed my signature too. I figured its time to put the past in the past. No one reason to keep all that bad stuff up there as a reminder. I'm taking baby steps to move ahead in my life. :-D

Livin4me,

You do have a great attitude and some wonderful plans. You are a great role model. Hope you have a fabulous day!