All your decisions have to be what YOU think are best for your family....if your W happens to work into that....then so be it. We know she is not doing the same.
H 34 W 31 M 11yrs D 11 D 9
6-1-08 I wanted to fix marriage 6-11-08 I found out about OM
I agree with 54. You should look at doing what you need to protect your K's.
W is absent from the K's lives. And not coming home is, in my view, a sign of abandonment. My W did that once (after a glass of wine tossed in my face). I noted it and it hasn't escalated into anything else yet. If you are concerned, do what you think is the right thing.
Pretty sad when the kids start becoming the pawns in the chess game.
LIS
M45 WW 43 D17/S14/D11
ILYB Jan 08 PA Conf Feb 08 OMW / OM contacted S Jan / 09
No one ever has, or ever will, escape the consequences of their actions.
