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I gotta agree with H4H on this. I got the same "you deserve better" stuff before. Sometimes in my head I agreed with it and then was sure of it. Today I still got that feeling some, even with the ILY's and sorries from W.

Not to happy that you are here. Made it easier to find you though.

Yea, I like over in Newcomer's. There are some great people over there. I just felt like being here because of her incessant need for another man.

H4H, rock and roll 4ever, brother.

Here's one that we can all relate to...

"Your Love Is A Lie" by Simple Plan (good Eastern Cdn band)

I fall asleep by the telephone
It's 2 O'clock and I'm waiting up alone
Tell me where have you been?
I found a note with another name
You blow a kiss, but it just don't feel the same
Cause I can feel that you're gone

I can't bite my tongue forever
While you try to play it cool
You can hide behind your stories
But don't take me for a fool

You can tell me that there's nobody else
(But I feel it)
You can tell me that you're home by yourself
(But I see it)
You can look into my eyes and pretend all you want
But I know
Your love is just a lie
(Lie)
It's nothing but a lie
(Lie)

You look so innocent
But the guilt in your voice gives you away
Yeah you know what I mean
How does it feel when you kiss when you know that i trust you
And do you think about me when he f**ks you?
Could you be more obscene?

So dont try to say you're sorry
Or try to make it right
Don't waste your breath because it's too late, it's too late.

You can tell me that there's nobody else
(But I feel it)
You can tell me that you're home by yourself
(But I see it)
You can look into my eyes and pretend all you want
But I know, I know,
Your love is just a lie
(Lie)
It's nothing but a lie
(Lie)
You're nothing but a lie

You can tell me that there's nobody else
(But I feel it)
You can tell me that you're home by yourself
(But I see it)
You can look into my eyes and pretend all you want
But I know, I know
Your love is just a lie
(Lie
I know you're nothing but a lie
(Lie)
Lie
(Lie)
Lie
(Lie)
Lie

Your love is just a lie

Nice one LIS. I'll have to give it a listen.

BTW, are you implying that Nickelback is a bad Cdn band?

MC - not at all! In fact Nickleback is a good Western Cdn band... More in my neck of the woods!

Yes, I would agree to that. Pop rock trying to be edgy, blah.

I've only been to eastern Canada; so I've not the experience with Western Canada. Though I wanted to go when I was up in Seattle a few years back. Just couldn't make it.

Kingston, ON....Now I had fun in that city as a single man in the 90's.

She did her usual Wed. night out last night. came through the bedroom to get a pillow at 4 this morning.

I got up at 5:30 and got the kids up and ready at 6. she did get up and sit with our D at the table for a few minutes; then went and laid back down on the couch. The kids and I left about 7:10.

She's been really attentive to being with the kids in the last week; but she still does little as far as care for them. I'm cooking, cleaning, and bathing. In fact, she does nothing around the house except use the internet, sleep, shower and primp, and eat. She does no cleaning, cooking for anyone, doesn't help with the animals anymore. She's a worthless roommate. Though she did give me $50.00 last week to help with our S daycare expenses.

I learned this morning that she ditched her IC appt. yesterday. So is this the beginning of the end of C for her? The experts say that some bail out of therapy when it starts getting too personal and the patient can't handle the truth of their inner demons. IC is probably starting to disagree with her lifestyle choices. But of course, it's all just supposition on my part.

Don't really care. Pushing on with my life for me and the kids.