I had him as a teacher! I was SO lucky, and I would say the class was worth the price of my MBA. He's actually a pretty quiet, unassuming person, but he knows his stuff very well.
Since you're into this kind of thing, I also want to suggest a movie, "What the Bleep do you Know". We watched it in the class, and one of the guys featured in it is one of the guys in the Secret as well. If you search for "What the Bleep do you Know online", you can find a free online version. The streaming video quality isn't very good, but it's about quantum physics, and creating your own universe in a way...Really fits in with the Secret.
ITH
Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!
You are SOOO Lucky!!! I will look for the film tonight and watch that too! I really like this way of thinking and it seems to really be lifting my spirits and I like feeling happy everyday now. I noticed that things that normally used to bug me and annoy me don't really matter anymore.
Thank you again so much!!! You need to stick with it too!!! Things have been a rollercoaster for you right now but they always end up ok. Keep that in mind!!
This way of thinking does seem to help. Even when those around me thought I was crazy, I had a voice at the back of my head saying that I did not have to have a bad outcome if I didn't want to. Seems like it's focusing on the positives and the desired outcome that can make all the difference, but feels so hard not to focus on the unwanted things and let them snowball...
ITH
Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!
Ohhh I know I have been trying hard not to let the bad thoughts creep in. My problem has always been the Over-active imagination and I have been struggling to push them out and banish them from my head.
Over active imagination = expectations!!! So it's good to keep them away. But it is sooo hard, join my boat! Lol.
I think the best thing is that you are AWARE of your thoughts now. Good and bad. Expectations or not. I am finding that to be the most important thing you can do with all of this DBing. To be aware of how you think, talk, and act. It's amazing how it is all connected.
So keep up the good work darling!
When are you gonna invite him out? I'm seriously dying to find out what happens next!
Aww Daisy thanks...great advise!! I am trying very hard to be fully aware of my thoughts.
Ok so I texted H this morning about the fair, very simple 'Good Morning. There is a art-film-music fair this Sunday, thought you might be interested....'
About an hour later I got 'Where'. That wasa bout 5 min ago and I just told him where it was....
P.S. My OAI wasn't about expectations, it was more about bad thoughts that would creep in and cause me to accuse H of crazy things.
Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!
Maybe the Secret will help you get your desired outcome :).
ITH
Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!
