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It's interesting that doing the right thing is the hardest thing to do.

Strength and Honor - strong to do the right thing even if it hurts you and honor to always do the right thing every time.

Maybe you need to take a refreshing autumn ride on the motorcycle this weekend.

Kerry,

I should have know you'd have an appropriate way to frame the issue.

I need something this weekend. I need to screw my head back on straight and put some pieces of something back together again. Given the forecast I think you have a brillant idea.

Hey Woog,

Perhaps I have not been following as much as I should...so please excuse me if I am being redundant. What is the speed bump you refer to and what is the right thing?
A couple of days ago you mentionned that in your darkest days ...well you had some pretty dark thoughts....I would have never imagined that by your posts. I think I have been on board with you from pretty close to day 1....I am not sure that I get the whole Woog.
I consider myself rather tight lipped in everyday life as it pertains to my personal life...a little less on these boards. You on the other hand...are very "tight lipped"on these boards. Are you the same in real life?
Open up a little buddy.

John,

I'm even more private in "real" life. Friends of mine would be shocked I'd post on these boards.

Let's just say my life got "complicated" for a while and I had to make a choice to do the right thing in a situation recently. It wasn't an easy choice and it sucks. Now I need to move on and refocus on myself and sticking to BBJ's road to happytown.

Unfortunately you don't always get what you want....

I thought I was private but compared to me you are a mummy.

Bro, tell me to eff off if I am asking too many questions (by the way you should run for office...you do a hell of a job of not answering questions)...maybe I should have been a journalist.
What choice? What was the right thing? The right thing for whom? Finally.....what do you want?

Take your time...no need to answer all these questions at once...maybe one at a time. You can do it Woog!

LMAO....

John... thank you for the smile.

Unfortunately I need to leave this one private. It's an issue that I'm going to have to deal with on my own. I appreciate your kinds words and support. It means a great deal to me.

I had hoped to make it to Montreal, but I think that will have to wait now. Perhaps someday. Or we meet in Vegas baby

Woog, sorry for the speed bump. Hope you get out on the motorcycle this weekend. Thinking of you like I do every day...

Bro!!!!! Now you add to the intrigue...you were going to make it to my hometown and now you "perhaps some day" me????

I can't take too much more of this .... between you, k and BBJ..i am losing it.

I think that when I leave for FLA. this coming Monday, i will DB this board and my STBXW (perhaps the STBXW should read stbxw... divorce won't happen before my D7's Bday .....maybe W wants out in 2008) but boy do i digress!!!

John.... you've been there all along. Take a step back and look at the forest (not gump) instead of the trees.

You'll be fine.