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((((Beautiful Melon Queen, mishka, Michelle, My Handsome Man, Ali, Julia, Dawn, Wise Naej, Sunshine, Lovely BA)))))

Ali- I haven't given up. I just don't have much to say- no contact from H and I haven't had the time or inclination to contact him. Eventually I'll have to, but I don't need to now. Maybe he's caving. Maybe he's gone. Who knows, except that eventually (if he wants his golf clubs, clothes, books, CDs and camera) he'll have to come and get them. Bizarre H. Maybe he just bought all new stuff! For some reason I find that funny!

Dawn, naej, Sunshine- in an ideal world yes, of course I'd like to have children the fun way, to raise them with a strong and lovely man by my side who loves me for who I am and is committed and understands what it takes to make a R successful. However, pragmatically speaking time is ticking on, and I want to have children. I could try and date but it might take years to find the right person that way! (Or I could be lucky I guess). I'm not ruling the fun route out. I'm just keeping my options open for now and moving my life forward. Having children is really really important to me so I have to explore all possibilities. I hope I managed to make that sense. All options are open is what I want to say.

BA- thankyou for visiting. I missed you and am so pleased to see you! I have thought about adoption. Sadly, though, in the UK it's difficult to adopt as a single parent. And there are long waiting lists. I'd love to have a child of my own aswell, but wouldn't rule adoption out if things changed in how they place children here.

Julia- seriously, you think those men might be suitable fathers of my children?! LOL!

Handsome- I think you're right, CEO is good for me, but I think you'd be better!

It's really lovely to visit my thread and see all the lovely posts. Thanks everyone!

Hopefully things can get a bit more back to normal now. CEO and I have got the bulk of the initial things we needed to do done now. Just a few more odds and ends to sort out but we're starting that tomorrow. Really looking forward to a proper night in tomorrow night, and not having to think about work!

Hey Lisa...

So you didnt reply to his email from last Wednesday (was it?) and he hasnt sent you any more? Hmm, but you sound so ok!? I dont know how you do it.

How would you feel if this is it, he does want his stuff back? I suppose it would be up to him to bring up D if that was going to happen? I hope thats not the case though.

I do get what you mean about having options over the children thing. I am worried about this too (and I am 38 in March !!!!). I went to the GP and got my hormones checked and my ovaries are ok still apparently, but perhaps you already did this. So I hope that things are ok, or looking a little more hopeful at work, or is it too soon to tell yet? I guess you need to get more money in, right? Nice to see you back!

Ali xxx

(((Lisa)))

Glad to hear you are doing well.

I am glad you are keeping busy even if it means you are not posting. But....I MISS YOU!!!!!

(((((((Lisa)))))))

Thanks!

Of course, CEO has the advantage of being there, and single! And with intact plumbing, I assume!

But.......

((((Lisa))))

Glad to hear you are doing so well even if crazed at work.

Have you and CEO come up with a way to save the company?

Hi Lisa
Thinking of you sexy lady! Hope the job is going OK? xx

(((((Lisa))))))))

Hope to hear from you soon. Wondering how the job front is going.

(((((((Lisa)))))))

Miss ya sweetie!

Hang in there!!!!!!!!!!!!

Yes, where have you been!? Are you chin stroking... I guess, being serious, you have been busy trying to sort things out at work together, hope it is producing results,
Ali xxx

Hi Lisa!

Thinking of you! Hope work is going well!

BA