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Ps Hi Nit forgot to say great on the cross stitch, I have a drawer with so many unfinished. I blame it on the fact that my eyes arn't what they used to be (I,m just lazy I think)
I hope you have found some enjoyment today.

I hear you on the no money I think many of us are finding it hard right now. What kind of work are you looking for?
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Hi nlt,

You should try to get out of the house a bit more often. It really helps detaching. At home you are always reminded of H. I find it helps me a lot and I get different thoughts.

I wish you a nice week-end. (((HUGS)))

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Hi, Thank you both for checking in on me & posting to me.

As far as the cross stitch, my eyes are not what they used to be either & I had pretty much given it up but I wanted to do something to hang in my bedroom so I've got all kinds of help with the eyes. Extra light, magnifying glass, reading glasses & all that stuff, so it's working!

I'm not feeling too good this morning, I hope I'm not getting sick.

Mentally, I feel peaceful right now. Not sure what that means but it's what I feel now. I'm trying to relax & take it one day at a time & not worry about what may or may not happen.

Thank you all for being here for me!!!

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Hi nlt,
Thanks for posting to me. I hope you are doing ok.

Yes, our H's are so lost, my MIL said the same. She does not recognise her son anymore either.

I wish you a nice and peaceful week. (((HUGS)))

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Just checking on you NLT. I hope you aren't getting sick. Take care of yourself.

Have a nice week!


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I'm doing ok, I've had my ups & downs this past week but I'm ok now.

I'm working on the CMA Awards so I haven't had much time to check up on everyone & post.

I'm still thinking of everyone!

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Not much to report, although my exMIL called me at 2:30 in the afternoon this week, I saw it on caller ID. I don't think I will call her back, she didn't leave a message & if she wants to talk to me she can call at night when she knows I might be at home. She called last month & now this month. I don't know what is up with that.

I tried to cross stitch last night but kept getting phone calls about the awards so I hope I'll get a little work in tonight on my project. I'm sure I'll be home tomorrow night & Saturday but starting Sunday I won't be on line much b/c rehearsals start that day.


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I do hope that you are feeling okay. It may be the stress of the CMA coming up, the weather and thinking about the holidays, etc. Just take it one day at a time for a bit.

I do have another thought about the MIL calling you. Have you given it any thought that it may not be your MIL calling you? Could it be that your xh is visiting his mother and picking up the phone and calling? I find it very strange that she would call and not leave a message. A lot of us are getting strange calls and I really do think it's the nuts trying to find their connection to us and the only connection is the telephone number. Did you record your voice on the answering machine? He may be calling to just listen and know that you've not changed the number. They really do some stupid things during their journey. The things they do at their ages, just make me shake my head over their stupidity.

N, I'm very pleased to see you've completed your project. I bet it looks great. Now, on to the next one....your eyes are just fine....lots of light to be used on such projects will help.

Take care of yourself.


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Hi nlt,
I am glad that you are ok and that you have some work. It will keep you busy and that is fine.

Take care and have a nice week-end.

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Hi Nlt,
Thanks for checking in on me.
It's good that you will be busy - it helps to get your mind off your sitch.
I don't know what to make of your MIL calling a few times and not leaving a message. Does she know you have caller ID and that you would see her number anyhow, even if she didn't leave a message???


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