Threw it in the door and forgot? That just tells you where their heads are at. If he had gotten pulled over for anything, he would have gone to jail. Crazy...
Yeah, I know. As to where their heads are at... CRI, remember?
Most of us are about as happy as we make up our minds to be.
Yes we have, its kinda wierd when you think about it, I could help them experience it I guess lol j/k of course.
I would NEVER EVER treat a sick human like he has, never, must be a woman thing.
M 36 XH 34 3 children If a house is divided against itself, that house will not be able to stand. Mark 3:25 "your mood swings are giving me whiplash" twilight ALIVE FREE AND HAPPY 2010
These MLC guys have an incredible ability to block out their sense of responsibility. A year ago H would not have gone to the pub without calling and inviting me to meet him there. Now not only will he not invite me, but he won't even call to tell me where he is after work.
Just incredible.
But he gets pissed if I treat him the same way. Go figure.
Most of us are about as happy as we make up our minds to be.
I am so glad that Friday night turned out to be so much fun!!! YEAH!! I understand how hard it can be to feel good about yourself. I know how hard it is when you H is telling you that he isn't attracted to you. I wish for you your H didn't keep turning on you, makes me hurt for you! I understand how hard it is to be in the same house and give space. I live with that daily! I am lucky that my H doesn't purposely make me feel bad. My H just seems to have a whole other life! Sounds like the weather is beautiful. I know it won't last. I got a bit of a sunburn yesterday on part of my neck, and I still have a tan! It was funny. You could see the line from H's sunglasses on his face.
How were your pies? I bet they were great!! Thought about you as we were getting our A** kicked by the Titans yesterday, wondered how your Lions were doing against Houston, but they didn't fair any better than my Chiefs! Part of the game I think I could have done as well as they did!! I can run after LenDale White as well our defense did!! White was very nice too, gave out two balls to Tenn. fans and gave a bunch of his stuff to kids in the stands, hats, gloves, etc. That is really nice to see a nice guy doing well.
On the responsibility part, my H hasn't done anything with the yard for a while, and gets mad at himself, because he hasn't done anything. But he could have mowed the other half of the grass sometime this weekend when he was off, but he didn't. I only mowed the front part last week when I put the scarecrow up! I have been busy with school and haven't had time to finish. He feels like he is letting the place go to pot. I like to mow in the summer when I can tan while I am doing it, but when it gets cold I don't want to do it. I feel bad asking him to do it because he works so much, but I figure if he can go spend time with OW, he could mow grass. So I have just let it go!!
The Lions looked pathetic, as usual. They woke up and made a good attempt at a come back, but it was too late. At least they only lost by 7 points and not the 21 they were behind for most of the game.
My pies were good. H was very happy with them and gave a couple of nice compliments. He said that I nailed the Key Lime, which is his ultimate compliment. I put a piece in his lunch today. Hope he thinks good thoughts of me when he eats it.
My H has not shown much real interest around our house for about a year. He has always been a stickler about our lawn. I am not even allowed to mow the grass, which has never really bothered me because we have always done the yard work together. While he is mowing he likes me to also be outside and so I usually work in my flower beds, pick up sticks or fill the bird feeders etc.
He is frustrated right now because the contractor that we hired to do some flat work is about 3 weeks behind and H is getting concerned that we won't get it done before the snow flies. Not a good thing. We could find another contractor, but we really like what this guys proposed and so will just have to wait for him.
Lots of people around our area are mowing less of their property this year because of high gas prices. Our neighbor used to mow about 4 acres of lawn, now it's only about 1 acre, and they let the rest grow up. We mow about 2 around the house and barn. Our mower is a zero clearance mower with levers and no steering wheel. I think I've driven it once or twice, and never at this house. We have lots of hills and valleys and a steep ditch. A couple of times this year H did not mow because he was up north golfing and partying with his buddies. When he did come home and finally mowed the grass was so thick that it had to be raked and then mowed again. Guess who got to do the raking? I didn't think that was very fair. But oh well.
Most of us are about as happy as we make up our minds to be.
We were the same way this year, used to mow about 5 acres and now we just do about 2. Used to take 6 hours to do the whole thing, we don't have a zero turn. Looked at some at the beginning of Spring this year, but didn't get one. Just used our sears lawn tractor. H used to do the weed eating, and I would mow. At times when he was working all the time, I did it all, but I hated to weed eat.
We raked our yard around the house last year because it was so high once, I hated that! It was not fun at all. I would say you definately go the short end there!!
Our yard always looked really good until this year, and has been something that my H has not understood as to why he hasn't wanted to do anything around the house. It is all just another piece of this.
It is part of it. Sort of a depression, I think. Everytime someone would come over H would say, I've got so much to do outside around here... but he never seemed to get himself motivated.
We let a lot slide last year because we were busy with my treatment etc. I thought we would get all caught up this year. We have quite a bit of barn repair to do too, just need for the alien to leave and my H to come back for a sustained visit.
A couple of times my H would wonder what was wrong with him. Am I depressed do you think? Well that would be my guess, but H does not like going to the doc., so he would never follow up. Self medicating depression with alcohol has never been such a good idea. Maybe one day he will wake up.
I have not heard a word from him all day. Not a good sign. No calls from him on Friday, and I made the mistake of following him to the pub. Don't think I will do that again tonight. I have a really good time on Friday after he left, and I'm sure his 3 x divorced buddy who was there and buying me drinks will try to stir the pot. Whatever. He made a smart comment to me last night about staying out til 2am, I just responded that the next time he left me someplace like that he had better give me a curfew, because when he left he didn't act like he wanted me around.
Most of us are about as happy as we make up our minds to be.
My H has made mention of that too, why do I not want to do anything? At the first of this I was looking up information on depression and was excited because I had found the cause of everything! I figured that would solve all of our troubles!! NOT. He never said I don't think I am depressed, but he isn't going to go the doctor for something mental! My H is very aware there is something that is not right with him, but just can't fix it.
I love the response to your H on the curfew. Sometimes my H is coming home at he same time his D is, makes me laugh; a few times they have pulled in the driveway right behind each other!
