I know I say something, I see you posted and I chuckle to myself. I KNEW you were going to ask me.
I plan on going to a state park this weekend and walk some trails. Beautiful time of year. Lost Maples State Park. The changing of the colors. Then, I'm invited to a birthday party for the ex-coworker that got fired, and his wife. Gonna try to do both on Saturday.
Me 47, WW 38 SS18, D15, D10
Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08
"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."
Sad and oddly comforting at the same time, isn't it?
Very sad. We just know each other like no other.
We always say the same thing at the same time. We just know to give each other the look when it happens. I KNOW her. She wants to believe so badly that I don't. She wants to believe that OM knows her best. BS! I know her like the back of my hand. She thinks that she has just changed so much. Bah!
Just like when we sent each other the emails. We were doing that same damn thing at the same time. I just didn't get hers because it got quarantined.
And she knows me the best. She know how I think.
I just wish that we could be totally honest in our talks to each other. That is something that has been difficult. Always has been.
Now that I want to have honest talks, now is not the time. It is time for the games. Purposely doing things. Hopefully to salvage our marriage. If not, then I know for the next relationship.
Me 47, WW 38 SS18, D15, D10
Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08
"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."
And like your W, my H thinks he has changed so much, that he is a new person. Phooey! We are both the same. Harder hearts, maybe.
I know! My H thinks the same! One time we were talking about how much I've changed from you know the spineless needy depressed jellyfish I was to whatever I am now maybe a more independent happy jellyfish? We were talking about that and then he said yes, I've changed so much too. And said it like he changed for the better???? How can he possibly think that???? Angry, self-involved, adulterous, WTH??? I don't get that. Karen
Guys, of course they think that. They only see themselves in the best light possible...not in the harsh glare of reality. H4H how can you be honest with someone who refuses to be honest with herself? I know that the lying is one of my biggest pet peeves with H. Just tell me the truth. I'll like it a hell of a lot more than a lie and because he totally sucks at it, I always find out.
Originally Posted By: karen43
We were talking about that and then he said yes, I've changed so much too. And said it like he changed for the better???? How can he possibly think that???? Angry, self-involved, adulterous, WTH??? I don't get that. Karen
Karen, he has to believe it. If not, then he has to face that he is a liar, a cheat and a self involved pr$ck. He knows it, but he just isn't ready to face it. I think thats what part of the fog serves as, a buffer between their reality and the planet as we know it. Dumb a$$ F*cktards....man, thats the best word ever.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
