First off, plan a date night where you take her out for dinner, make sure she drinks a glass of wine or two...do not stay out too late, then bring her home and have another bottle of wine ready. Do this again THIS WEEKEND preferably.
I'm starting to think you were James Bond in your previous life!
Good advice.
S&A
"A man can be destroyed but not defeated" - from The Old Man and the Sea, by Ernest Hemingway.
Which I take to mean that every man has within him a spirit of relentlessness and optimism. Its already there; he just has to cultivate it.