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Cagz,

I am so sorry. I can't believe you have to endure this also.
I would like to slap him up
What an idiot.
Has he been treated?

Great topic. It needs to be discussed. We all could be in the same position. They only think of themselves.

So maybe celibacy is not all that bad!

I haven't had any relations w/H since he got involved w/OW.

And now I realize it wouldn't be a good plan.

FWIW, I have had 2 rounds of testing done. The first time right after I found out about the PA and once again after the OW came up with an STD. Lucky for me (and them) I was clean both times. The fact she had something that I didn't let H know that she was not exactly who he thought she was either, unfortunately due to the circumstances, that doesn't really matter.