MWG, Thanks. Well, his response was a great one. He asked if I wanted him to come help move stuff. I responded back saying Thanks for offering and "Yes, that would be very helpful". But I didn't hear back after that. Not sure what this means.
(((nlt))) Thanks. I hope you were able to get through your anniversary without too much heartache. Keep up the good work on yourself and your relationship with God. At least you can control these 2 things.
This week, I was good with FlyLady until Wed. Since Thursday - not so good. I have trouble getting the Bedtime routine done. I am sure I will get there sometime. Been good with the weekly home blessing and some what good with the zone cleaning. It feels so good to de-clutter. I got rid of about 4 years of to-be-shred junk mail!
Have you heard from h with regard to helping you out?
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
Hey MWG, No didn't hear back. Not sure if it had anything to do with the way I responded. I just thanked him and said yes it would be helpful, but didn't ask when he was coming over or suggest a time.
He asked you and you answered. All you can do is wait for his answer now.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
MWG, I have been under "attack" this whole day/weekend, through a certain situation which has been giving me grief for a few weeks now. It's really upsetting me. This has nothing to do with my H but I do wish that my H is around to help me handle this situation.
Yesterday, I got pretty upset when a health professional criticised me for not following his recommendations. He gave me some exercises to do a few weeks ago but I stopped doing them and he was unhappy with me about that.
This "attack" happened right after 2 good sessions at a Christian women conference!
I also am trying to avoid a neighbor who has made several inappropriate remarks to me over the past year or so. I feel uncomfortable enough to avoid him.
Is this doctor worth going back to? I would try to find somebody different.
As for the neighbor--I hope there is a way you do not have to run into that person and hope it is not something that causes you to be fearful.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
Why did you stop doing what the doctor recommended? If it was hurting you or not working then he should recommend something else.
Do you think your neighbour is a jerk or is he just flirting with you a little. Some guys have a tendency to push it a little far sometimes but we don't mean to be offensive. If you are really worried about him though, you could mention it to your H. He maybe suffering from a crisis but I doubt he would put up with it. He will probably have words with the guy. We like to do that
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M35 W37 S9 D6 M12 yrs Know 15 yrs Bomb 1/28/07 My Sitch Failure is the opportunity to start again more intelligently - Henry Ford
MWG, The doctor is a very good one. I guess I got tired of trying different exercises over 18 months and still my problem isn't resolved. Sometimes, I feel like a guinea pig. He tends to be "rough" when talking to me and not too gentle. He's from NY and says that's how NYers talk/behave.
The more worrying problem is the first one I mentioned. A tradesperson has been taking my kindness for granted. He demanded I paid him for a job, even though it was not finished and promised to finish it in the next few days. The few days dragged out into a few weeks. And it's still not done. Yesterday, he even turned his phon off and told his daughter to lie to me he wasn't home. I can't believe that he's doing this. He promises to show up, doesn't show up and doesn't call to tell me.
The neighbor - well the problem is I walk my dog past his house everyday twice a day. If I take a different route, he's going to ask why. He said something about missing seeing my pretty legs in the winter. When I responded I hope his wife doesn't hear him saying that, he got scared. That really really bothered me. Before that he has said multiple times that my dog and I are his favorite 2 women!
Just a week ago, he said I should wear a hood because it covers up my pretty hair-do.
