if we say something that seems out of step, they go bonkers because we have disrupted their little world.
That's how it seems to be. I cannot talk to H since he cannot be reached by phone. All I can do is sent him e-mails. I still have not replied and I will wait a few more days.
Your temperatures are still so high at this time of year. A bit cooler would be just fine for me.
glamgirl, not answering his e-mail would not exactly be a 180 for me. I have done it a few times and he always wrote again after about 7 to 10 days.
Journaling: Today one of my GFs called and we went for a walk. It was sunny in the morning but the afternoon was cloudy again and later on it started to rain. We wanted to go dancing on Saturday, but she told me that she could not make it. So I need to organize something else.
When I was pregnant in 1990, it was 122 degrees one day. Imagine how I felt--it was awful.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
Hi nlt, Thanks for popping in. I am doing quite alright - thanks.
Journaling: Had some quiet days at home and enjoying the partly sunny autumn weather. Now it is dull and rainy again.
Yesterday I went to an introduction of a book by the author with a friend. We had a nice evening. I will probably meet another GF tonight to go to the cinema.
Tomorrow I will go to a dance performance and next week my sister will probably stay with me for a few days.
I finally answered H's e-mail telling him that I will not start the D process, but if he thinks a D would make him happy I will agree to one.
You remind me so much of my uncles's ex-wife whom I am in contact with.
After the divorce from my uncle, she moved out of state, did not know anyone but became involved and busy. She went to museums, joined a bird club, met people at church and befriended some elderly people, etc.
Your keeping busy with different activities is great and you always have something to look forward to.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
Hi MWG, Thanks for checking in on me. - I hope your uncle's ex-wife is happy and has found the joy of life again. I am glad that I have lots of interests and therefoe I am not bored too often.
Journaling: I called a GF who is the wife of one of H's friends. We chatted about a few things and she told me what she did recently. Amongst other things I asked her whether she heard anything from H. She said that they received a harsh worded reply to their e-mail from H about a month ago telling them that he is not living at his place anymore and that he did not want to tell them where he was. They have not heard from him since. - So he really doesn't have much contact with his friends.
I did not go to the cinema with my GF since the film we wanted to see is not on anymore. And it was also a rainy evening and we both prefered to stay in a warm and cosy house.
