AMEN to that! So sorry about the warts. That just sucks unbelievably bad. Glad you are doing better now.
((((Hugs))))
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
I guess another moral of this story is even if you spouse says that nothing "physical" happened between the OW/OM and themselves, don't take that on face value. It was president's day of last year when this happened and my husband at the time SWORE to me that they did not have sex, just "a lot of kissing." That was obviously a big fat lie and I believed it. I thought by having sex with him, I was helping my save my marriage. But it only made things much more confusing between us during that time as well as the outcome of the STD months later. Having sex with your wayward spouse is not a good idea for your marriage or your health.
Sara
Me-31 H-38 M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs No kids Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06 Found out about OW 12-24-07 Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08 OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08 OW is back 4-19-08 H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08 Filed for divorce 6-5-08 Divorced 7-2-08
I am very glad you posted this as well. Very sorry though, that you had to endure this, but I think its important for all of us to consider. Although I don't know about an EA or PA that my H is involved in certainly does not mean that he is telling the truth. I am happy to say that I stopped ML with H and am really trying hard to stay committed to that. I will think of your post every time I am tempted so thank you!
