(((Jen))) I'm so sorry for the loss of your husband. You and your DD will be in my prayers.
Corey
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
all my love & prayers ! I'm so very very sorry for your loss !
Hugs
M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months 4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10 I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.
I don't have the words to express the heaviness in my heart. I'm thinking of you and your gorgeous little girl and my heart goes out to you both.
A passage by Mitch Albion
Lost love is still love. It just takes a different form, that's all. You can't hold their hand, you can't tousle their hair. But when those senses weaken another one comes to life... Memory. Memory becomes your partner. You hold it...you dance with it. Life has to end...Love doesn't.
Jen, I hadn't seen your threads or posted to you before, but after seeing on AliSuddenly's thread what was going on with you, I came over here and read through this thread of yours. I'm so, so very sorry to hear about what has happened with you! I'm sure your emotions are just in turmoil right now.
Words on a screen seem so inadequate, but please know that all of us here are holding you and your daughter in our hearts and virtually walking beside you, sharing your pain, and praying for you to have peace despite this terrible blow. I hope that at some point you will be able to come to the board and receive comfort from the outpouring of support for you, and that in the meantime you are receiving it in abundance in RL.
Blessings and peace, Dawn
Me 45/H 47, no kids Together since 1985; M/1992 Bomb1 (EA-OW1, age 22) 2001 Bomb2 (EA/PA-OW2, age 22) 10/2007, A continues H left 11/24/08 minimal contact, no legal action http://tinyurl.com/DawnHope1
Jen--holding you in prayer. I'm so sorry for your loss, especially in such a horrible crime.
I used to attend a lot of funerals as part of my ministry job, and one thing I remember that made a lot of sense is from the pastor's funeral sermons. He would always say that love is forever. When someone we love dies, their love doesn't die with them. Rather, it is made eternal and made perfect. None of our temporal issues or baggage complicating it--it is perfect, as it was intended to be. I know this won't mean much now, but I hope in the future it may be a comfort to you.
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012
I'm holding your Daughter and you in my heart and in my prayer.
I wish there was something else I could do, other than just sit here crying, thinking of you.
I ask not for a lighter burden, but for broader shoulders ____________________________________________________ M 46 H 45 D 17 M/T 23 Bomb #1 (ILYBNILWY) 12.06 Bomb #2 (OW) 12.07 Bomb #3 (chose OW over M) 9.08
Jen, I posted on FB and on the other thread. I am still in shock over what's happened. I can't imagine how you and D are dealing with such a tragedy. I wanted you to know that I am thinking of you. If you ever need to talk off the BB, you know how to get a hold of me. ((((((HUGS)))))
Me47 H46 S13 M16 Piecing since May/09
"Life is 10% what happens to us and 90% how we react to it." Lou Holtz
