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he just said he was kinda talking to someone. Said he was just making new friends. He couldnt talk to me about everything and just needed someone to talk to...

So, he picks a stranger?


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Is he in IC??

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If it is a stranger, maybe he feels he will not be judged or that person will be less judgmental?


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H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
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yes he is in counseling...

and Im sure your right MWG. But he has a counselor for that.


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He definately doesn't need to meet others to boost himself. He's only going to say things anyway to make himself feel better. I'm sure all these WAH/MLCers do.

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Kissak, just wanted to come by and tell you I understand your feelings, the pain and the loneliness.

I too have been crying and crying lately...it seems to be indeed the only kind of relief from all of this...

(((((((((hugs))))))))))

My prayers are with you ! xxx


Love Cinders xxx

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Thank you Cinders, I agree...sometimes crying seems to be the only thing that will make me feel better.....AND taking it out on my H helps too....lol. I shouldnt do that, but I did some today. I know he thinks Ive lost my mind...but oh well. He dont want me anyway.

Thanks for the prayers....mine are with you as well. I guess we will get through this one way or another.


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I'm glad to read that you sound better after Cinders post. \:\)

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hey dar....i added you in FB


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I think I will go and find you, too. lol!!!


The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
Kids: 22, 20, 19
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