Can't believe they got banned. Still no real idea exactly why and can't see why anyone on this type of forum is like that. I've said time and again that I've met nothing but top people on here who are looking out for one another, people they don't know for toffee but are always here to help you through your dark times. Even when not having a great time themselves.
from what I gather one poster posted a personal email address and this was followed by other posters doing the same. A dispute about mods playing favorites ensued and the banning begins..
I've been on all kinds of BB's. I've ran BB's. I've been a Mod on certain sites..all it takes is web space, script and posters..and waaalaaaa you have yourself a BB. I've never been on one where personal contact was not allowed. It really makes no sense to me. I'm assuming the mods think that if we make contact with each other we will all be on planes flying around the country "porking" each other due to our fragile emotional states..
but hey, what do I know..I'm like the old yellow lab..just eating the food and coming here to crap in the yard..
Those who have posted their email addresses have been banned. If you would like to be reinstated, you must email virginia@divorcebusting.com.
the above post was made by dbmod on the thread of death..
Here ya go boys..the kiss of death..
looks like Bethie, Figgy, AG, Barbiedoll, and a few more got axed..and now must repent and seek forgiveness before being allowed to post here again..looks like they have to bow at the feet of Virginny to get back in.
My first ever question was why no PM, think the answer is in the main threads bit near the top. Don't really recall now and although I understood, I still thought it unecessary. We are all adults and there are other ways to find people anyway and people will do so not sure of the point of it all really.
but hey, what do I know..I'm like the old yellow lab..just eating the food and coming here to crap in the yard..
you forgot about the most beautiful, expressive brown eyes, the waggiest of all tails and the ability to listen to endless out pourings of the heart and take a secret to the grave.
In the spirit of compromise I concede he does live to eat and yes he does the other thing you mentioned. I just had to mention the good points too.
I was wondering if I would look like a pathetic divorcee woman if I went by myself with a box of tissues to the Matinee. (I work nights, so it would be easier and cheaper in the day!) I really want to see it, I need some inspiration!
maybe you go sans kleenex and some nice guy may just offer you one..may make a new friend, possibilities are endless..
make it all about you and you will get your groove back.
but hey, what do I know..I'm like the old yellow lab..just eating the food and coming here to crap in the yard..
you forgot about the most beautiful, expressive brown eyes, the waggiest of all tails and the ability to listen to endless out pourings of the heart and take a secret to the grave.
In the spirit of compromise I concede he does live to eat and yes he does the other thing you mentioned. I just had to mention the good points too.
I know, I know..harsh..I feel the rug has been pulled from under me. I sort of leaned on some of the outcasts. They kept me centered. I've pretty much "spun" all day. and I'm still pissed about it..and now if they want back on they must beg and plead, ...how childish..
Mike: I've been told by one of them that begging and pleading has not worked. They have emailed and asked to be reinstated and the mods will not reply. SO - don't believe what the mods tell you - it is not happening. So far - they can't come back!