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Then I'd say "I'm sorry you feel that way. SEE ya."

Puppy

Sign the papers tonight. Get that issue out of the way. You are not going to drag your feet on signing then all of a sudden the light bulb goes on for her. She got left holding the bag (Baby), the OM went running...you thought you might then have a chance if you white knighted the situation...and now you found out that won't work. Sign the papers....if she down the line thinks differently about you you can always remarry. I really don't see that happening based on what you wrote. Time to be there for your kid and press-on.

(root) her and her sister have a lovely habit of speaking the worst when they're pissed. trust me she doesn't mean it

(puppy) its like you read my mind. that's exactly what I said. I told her I wasn't responsible for the mistakes she's made.

(flynn) i'm going to sign them, but when I'm ready. I'm not going to rush just because its what she wants. this is on my terms as well. sure the white knight approach didn't work, but i've had time to detach in the past 3 months. none of the crap that flies out of her mouth bothers me. about once a week I think, "man some dude put his plane in my wife's hangar" but that's about it. i move on though. i've always been there for our son though. he's my priority.

So are you still going to go over there and care for her?

Nope

Good!

I just come across as needy and clingy so I'm staying away. She'll realize she has no one but herself and 2 children eventually. I am approaching the point where I don't want her back. Didn't think it would happen

I'm at the point where she isn't really a part of my life anyway. And she doesn't want to be either so oh well. I did see the OM and his girlfriend at the local carnival though. So did W. It was a rush :-)

Sometimes life gives you those little moments that you have to enjoy. Karma is a b!tch.

that damn wife of mine is having a birthday party for our son tomorrow and of course i'm not invited (i had one for him last week). so of course I said to her "why am I not invited ? i'm sure the guest of honor wants his father there" and she said "seriously you are driving me nuts. if there were ever a reason why i didn't want to get back together it would be because of stuff like this."

to my wife, when i want to do stuff as a family, she thinks its because I want to be around her or get her back. that was true about 3 months ago, but i almost can't stand being near her either.

who is this woman i married, seriously ? i told her to forget it and i don't want to hear about her men problems.