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Re: Ready2Change (7) - Two Lives No Longer BH #1600351 09/23/08 05:14 AM
Joined: Mar 2008 Posts: 9,350 Likes: 310 Colorado R Ready2Change OP Member
OP Ready2Change Member R Joined: Mar 2008 Posts: 9,350 Likes: 310 Colorado	Oh ya, Got an email from lawyer. Needs more money...... "What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712

Re: Ready2Change (7) - Two Lives Ready2Change #1601202 09/23/08 10:06 PM
Joined: Dec 2007 Posts: 521 N No Longer BH Member
No Longer BH Member N Joined: Dec 2007 Posts: 521	Those are definately bitter checks to write...... (((HUGS))) Broken Hearted ------------------ Me - 36 H - 37 S - 8 Married - 1992 ILYNILWY - August 2007 Moved Out - March 2008 OW Revieled - May 28, 2008 Filed for D - July 2, 2008 http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1599046&page=0&fpart=1

Re: Ready2Change (7) - Two Lives No Longer BH #1601389 09/24/08 01:37 AM
Joined: Mar 2008 Posts: 9,350 Likes: 310 Colorado R Ready2Change OP Member
OP Ready2Change Member R Joined: Mar 2008 Posts: 9,350 Likes: 310 Colorado	Originally Posted By: brokenhearted Those are definitely bitter checks to write...... It all depends on how you look at it. My Lawyer 2X4ed me into action and didn't let W take my kids away from me. That alone was worth every penny $\:\)$ "What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712

Re: Ready2Change (7) - Two Lives Ready2Change #1601393 09/24/08 01:41 AM
Joined: Mar 2008 Posts: 9,350 Likes: 310 Colorado R Ready2Change OP Member
OP Ready2Change Member R Joined: Mar 2008 Posts: 9,350 Likes: 310 Colorado	Dinner tonight: we prayed. I asked what is the most important thing for each of them and to pray for it: S7 - The family stops fighting. (we had a very good discussion) S9 - Hugs. We stopped and had hugging time. D6 - Kisses. We all kissed. We talked about ways to deescalate issues that may come up. Very good discussions...... "What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712

Re: Ready2Change (7) - Two Lives No Longer BH #1601476 09/24/08 02:49 AM
Joined: Jul 2008 Posts: 159 City of Chicago suburbs B Bliss Member
Bliss Member B Joined: Jul 2008 Posts: 159 City of Chicago suburbs	Hi Ready! Took me a bit but I found you! $\:\)$ I just wanted to stop by to tell you how much your encouragement means to me in this time of 'all hell breaking loose'. I'm in that crazy stage right now...nothing makes any sense....did it make any sense before now? Ugh. Also, wanted to tell you those pictures are gorgeous, and I want one of those pretty purple flowers, can ya get me one? hehe....what kind of flower was that in the second link? $\:\)$ God's gifts...truly amazing! Hugs to you R2C! Bliss Me:46 H: 46 DD:22, DS:12 Together since age 16. Married: 26 years 10-9-08...H filed for D same week as our anniversary. Dear Lord....Please keep your arm around my shoulder and your hand over my mouth.

Re: Ready2Change (7) - Two Lives Ready2Change #1601635 09/24/08 06:00 AM
Joined: May 2008 Posts: 2,978 S smartcookie Member
smartcookie Member S Joined: May 2008 Posts: 2,978	Originally Posted By: Ready2Change Dinner tonight: we prayed. I asked what is the most important thing for each of them and to pray for it: S7 - The family stops fighting. (we had a very good discussion) S9 - Hugs. We stopped and had hugging time. D6 - Kisses. We all kissed. We talked about ways to deescalate issues that may come up. Very good discussions...... (((Ready))) Your positive attitude, and loving, gentle ways with your kids is wonderful ! Thanks for looking in on me. Hugs M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months 4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10 I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.

Re: Ready2Change (7) - Two Lives smartcookie #1602530 09/24/08 09:32 PM
Joined: Feb 2008 Posts: 4,585 Northeast G Gypsy Member
Gypsy Member G Joined: Feb 2008 Posts: 4,585 Northeast	Awwww... Ready.. That sounds double adorable! Do you write these moments down in a journal. It's a gift you give to yourself and them. Do it! Hope your day is going great! hugs

Re: Ready2Change (7) - Two Lives Gypsy #1603012 09/25/08 11:27 AM
Joined: Feb 2008 Posts: 4,585 Northeast G Gypsy Member
Gypsy Member G Joined: Feb 2008 Posts: 4,585 Northeast	Sooo, Mr. Watusi.. What are you doing for yourself today? Inquiring minds want to know! hugs

Re: Ready2Change (7) - Two Lives Gypsy #1603483 09/25/08 06:06 PM
Joined: Aug 2008 Posts: 281 H HFGW Member
HFGW Member H Joined: Aug 2008 Posts: 281	Ready - I admire the relationship you have with your kids. It is truely wonderful and inspiring. Going to take a leaf from your book. Keep strong. Me: 38 W: 41 M: 17 yrs 3 kids Bomb: 3/08 affair Status: On Divorce track Thread: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1620805&page=0&fpart=1

Re: Ready2Change (7) - Two Lives HFGW #1603695 09/25/08 07:53 PM
Joined: Mar 2008 Posts: 9,350 Likes: 310 Colorado R Ready2Change OP Member
OP Ready2Change Member R Joined: Mar 2008 Posts: 9,350 Likes: 310 Colorado	Thanks for thinking of me! Mr Watusi is planning on going for a bike ride after work. I plan on doing some ME time tonight. I need some alone time..... HUGS "What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712

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