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I will take your cold weather in exchange for our one hundred degree weather.

I am glad you are keeping busy, TL, doing nice things.

Hi nlt and MWG,
Nice of you to pop in. nlt: I think in the 70s is a bit too cool for me!!

I went out again with a GF on Saturday night and yesterday evening I invited some GFs to my place. We had a good time. Yes, I am keeping very busy and I am enjoying it.

I received an slightly angry e-mail from H blaming the realtor for doing nothing in order to sell the property. I will reply just listing facts.

True,
I'm glad you had some friends over. It's always nice to have company versus going out all of the time.

About your h's angry email....he should be corresponding w/the realtor. It's not your place to defend the realtor or anyone else. If you do post to him, tell him that in the future if he's got issues w/the realtor to contact them directly w/a cc to you. That you are not his whipping person and will not tolerate his wrath over something that is not in your control. I would wait a day or so before responding to him when he's like this.

Enjoy your week!

TL:

glad you had another nice time.

wow--the way real estate is selling these days (barely), it will certainly test your H's patience, won't it?????

I agree, if he is unhappy about something regarding the realtor, he should contact that person, not you.

Hi True,

I agree with the others. I also believe your H is unhappy the way he is getting so upset with the realtor. My H got very upset with the ins. agent so I don't think he is happy either, but who knows anymore.

You keep doing what you are doing!

(((HUGS)))

Hi Snodderly,
Nice of you to check on me. I did wait to reply and I just forwarded what the realtor sent me. Yes, if he wants to complain at the realtor, he has to do it by himself.

I hope H will get the message that he needs to change his tone if he wants me to continue doing anything. I mirrored his e-mail by starting the email without his name and at the end I also only just wrote mine. If H continues in that tone I will tell him that I would appreciate a more pleasant tone.

Yes, I enjoyed having my friends over. I will have to do that more often.

Have a nice week.

Journaling:
I had a great Sunday. It was sunny in the afternoon and I went for a walk. In the evening I went to a comedy show which was really good and I laughed a lot. I was lucky to get a ticket as it was sold out. But a guy standing right behind me brought one back and I was able to buy it off him.

We had two sunny but cold days, but I still went for walks in the afternoon. I decided to stay in yesterday evening and this evening and watch some good things on TV. I noticed that I went out almost every evening for the last two weeks, and that is a lot. However, I enjoyed every minute!

I had to cut the lawn yesterday as it was a sunny afternoon and it needed doing. Occasionally, I need work in the garden!

Hi MWG, I just thought the same. I wonder if it will sell at all this year.

Hi nlt, Yes, he is not happy. When I stayed with him he told me that nothing is going the way he wants it and that's why he is so angry. So I guess it is still the same reason for him being unhappy.

I will check in on other threads later on.

Hi Cinders,
Since you have not a thread of your own at the moment (at least I have not seen one), I would like to say on my thread that I am thinking of you and hope that you are doing fine. Have a lovey week. (((HUGS)))

Hi True,

I feel like that could be the way it is with all WAS's. They thought the grass was greener on the other side but it is usually not.

Usually anger means unhappy!

You should like you are doing wonderful!!

((((HUGS)))