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All, My anniversary came and went without any contact from my H. Today, 2 days post-anniversary, I sent him a funny email and thanked him for the basement help 2 weeks ago. No acknowledgement. Not sure what it means... But I continue in my journey, as usual.


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I am sorry you did not hear from him. I think I said to someone else to try very hard to think of it as just another day. I have been thru three anniversaries where we have been separated. I know it is not fun but I tried very hard to treat like any other day.


The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
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PH don't worry about your h NOT acknowledging your anniversary. How could he when he is so far away in his mind. He is not able to do that right now.

You are right continue as usual. Remember it wasn't too long ago that he was sleeping over.


Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

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Hi PH,

I'm sorry your H didn't acknowledge your anniversary. Our anniversary is Friday the 10th & I'm sure I won't hear from my ex either.

Hang in there!!!

((((HUGS))))

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MWG, Thanks. I know. I actually just stayed home that day, which turned out to be very full anyway. See later post.


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glam, MWG,
Thanks for your support. I did turn my focus away and as I posted, I continued to pray and asked God for patience and help to trust in His plan and timing. Wasn't Charlyne Cares today awesome. It reminded me about the need to be patient. It hit me like a brick!

And God is faithful. My H responded today (to my email).


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Hi nlt,

I hope you do something nice for your anniversary on Fri. Spend it with your parents or dogs, or just go out to do something nice. You hang in there too.

Hugs back to you.


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PH:

Great. I hope it was all good in the email.


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Thanks PH,

My dogs will be with me at my parents house. I'm sure some of that will take my mind off of it some. You know, some reason I feel a little peace tonight. I just don't think he will stay away, could be wrong.

So, glad your H emailed you back. I hope it was all good!!

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That is awesome PH that your h emailed you back. It's amazing how just the small communication keeps the faith.

Keep hanging in there!


Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"
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