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We have three cats and two dogs. I have the kitties and H has the dogs. Two of the three kitties hiss at him when he comes over. Of the dogs, Leah keeps trying to run away. Since Mad Max returned she seems to be more aggressive, so I don't think it has anything to do with the S, but more about having someone who is invading her space lol

I still sleep on my own side. Which I wonder why because my side is on the far side. I need to walk around the entire bed to get there. If I need to get up to use the bathroom, again, I have to walk all the way around. But, I think it would just feel weird to be on the other side, or even in the middle. My h used to love to sleep smack dab in the middle of the bed. So, more times then not, I'd be holding on to the edge of the bed hoping not to fall off, until I'd wake him to move over. Now, I still wake up at the edge. It's nice to realize I can scoot over some.
Currently s2 is invading my bed. It's a bad habit I let him get into, but frankly, I'd rather sleep, then listen to him cry at night.

I use the whole bed when I am going to sleep. But ultimately, in the morning, I still wake up on "my" side of the bed.

I use the WHOLE bed now. When H was there I always would wind up barely hanging on to the edge of myside because he was so greedy!! LoL. I would have to keep waking up and pushing him over. The only weird thing is that I only get in & out of "my" side even though like ladybug it's on the other side of the room and I walk around the bed..