Just wanted to say I enjoy your posts to SMW a lot. You seem to have your feet on the ground. I have never been here and wont be. So, any advice would be -almost- worthless. But the feelings you describe sound normal and natural. It's the "watch what you are wishing for because you may get it" line I like to use some times...
I suggest you read Lan's (Lanzo)threads. He is a friend and has been working very hard to get his marriage back on track.
I now almost want to say ILYBNILWY, this is new territory for me.
Coach - I totally understand. You know my sitch. Many times sad to say - I wonder if I even want my H back anymore. But deep down inside - I do. Your wife put up walls & so did you. A natural defense. Just take it slow .... as the control switches back & forth from her to you & so on. What stage do you think you are at? (Friends, best friends .....)? Keep with the babysteps
Me39, XH45 Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats Divorced 6/4/09 Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)
