Good job on staying dim since yesterday morning Jen... and I'm so happy for you that you've made some new hash friends and are doing a lot of GAL activities!!!
Hi W2G! Thanks for the compliment Still no sign of them. I guess they'll be here soon. Normally I'd call or text to ask but not today since I know how annoying he finds it. I'm learning
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
Although I know it's tough to not pick up the phone.. it also feels good don't you think?
I find it pretty easy to just respond and not initiate any more.. but I remember not that long ago how my hands were itching to pick up the phone and my mind was racing for a "valid" reason to call... and when I managed to hold off I felt proud of myself. You should too!
I got a message around 8:30pm saying that there was a kiddie party, all of Ds friends were there and she was enjoying herself. I wrote back about 5 minutes later telling him how cool it was that they were having a party for the kids and if he was having fun. He said he was enjoying a beer. We wrote a couple of times each and I guess they'll soon be home.
It is easier not to call or text. I won't write him tomorrow either and see what happens.
I watched The Secret agsin tonight. XH has seen it too. I was thinking that oif 2 people have both seen it and one wants reconcillation to be happy and the other wants something else then who gets to be happy? Who gets what they want in life?
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
I think that "secret" stuff is a bunch of hooey! PMA is important for sure but it does not change the outcome of life. I would just keep doing what you're doing and let life happen as is.
Yip contact...was nice to get a friendly text from him.
The Secret is a bestselling book and they made a DVD in 2006 it talks about the "Law of Attraction". The website is http://www.thesecret.tv I think you'll find it fascinating. Should be able to find it at B&N I haven't read the book (yet).
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
The last time he got upset and said I wasn't showing concern for D...excuses of course.